why canot i have just a rest one day in my life free from mistskes and bad luck ang stuipety
2006-06-17 13:39:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hey, look on the bright side. At least you are taking responsibility for yourself unlike some people I know.
A little tid bit for ya: We are all like you, but most people are in denial that they create havoc and hurt others.
Your luck will change. It may be awhile. I like to think of life as "Feast or Famine. Hang in there it's called life.
2006-06-17 13:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by You got Moxie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Question is, how are you measuring your accomplishments (or non-accomplishments). Make sure YOU are judging your actions, not basing it off of what others do or might think.
And here is a saying that I find really helps (as I make loads of screw ups) - The road to wisdom is paved with mistakes.
Think about it. Anyone who really knows something has screwed it up first. Someone who hasn't messed up is just full of it.
:) Good luck!
2006-06-17 20:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to feel this way my self, then I realized it's more mind over matter, If your negative all the time about everything , you tend to bring negative things around you. Change your perspective and see things in a new light, things get bad laugh about it, say tommrows another day. Dont worrie about the things you can't change, and work on changing those things you worrie about.
Have positive thoughts and it will change everything around you.
2006-06-17 20:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by angelw/brkwingcrookedhalo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start your day off thinking only about positive things instead of all that negative! I know it sounds corny, but you make your own fourtune (or misfortune in your case!) with the midset you have. If you think that you're only capable of making mistakes, then that's exactly what you're going to do.
2006-06-17 20:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by tom8o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a positive attitude and mistakes are made by even those who seem "lucky" learn from your mistakes grow, mature and enjoy the good things as the come your way. we all have bad moments, weeks, whatever. just take life one day, one moment at a time.
2006-06-17 20:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by Hetti_B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always felt this way myself, but it is an additude of low self confidence. Realize of course that there is bad luck, and that life sucks... as pessimistic as that may sound. It's not your fault, I"m saying... that YOU did not screw it up and I think your spelling is fine.
2006-06-17 21:25:15 · answer #6 · answered by the Bruja is back 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are depressed, friend, and in need of human companionship. See a shrink and join a club and or work at a charity kitchen. You need to re-evaluate yourself and improve your self image.
2006-06-17 20:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by syrious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all respect, start by using spell check on here; Then, do not be embarrassed to get professional help and advice.
2006-06-17 20:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you need to get some help, counseling. Then start to realize everyone makes mistakes, and learn to think before you act
2006-06-22 18:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by mysticalflyingsquirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like yourself are just born losers
2006-06-17 20:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋