how would your parents feel if u date any older guy for example if u are 16 and he is 35 how would your parents feel about that and if u really love him and if he really loves u what would your parents tell u
2006-06-17 13:00:49 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He needs to see a shrink and will probably end up in jail. If you really ARE 16, you sure are very immature for your age, otherwise you would realize yourself, that you are "dating" a creep.
He doesn't "really love" you, and you don't "really love" him..... he is just a creep, who found an easy target.
Ever wondered why he would "really love" a CHILD instead of a woman his own age.... think about it, you can't be THAT immature and uneducated ?!
2006-06-17 13:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by PasoFino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would "MY" parents feel if I were a 16 year old dating a 35 year old? Well, first of all my parents would have NEVER allowed such a thing to even have taken place. I would have had my butt kicked!! I must say, that at the age of 35 he is out for nothing but trouble. I'm sorry, but he doesn't love you honey. And you may think you love him, but when you are older you will see there is more to it then just the infatuation you are experiencing right now.
2006-06-17 13:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 35 year old adult who "dates" a 16 year old is a pedophile. Your parents need to alert the authorities.
A 16 year old who thinks she's in love with a 35 year old man has emotional problems and needs to get counseling. Ask your parents to look into family counseling. If that's not an option ask your doctor, your school counselor or psychologist, school nurse, a teacher, a minister or Rabbi, what ever your faith; your religious leader, Sunday- school teacher, grandparents, someone. You need to be made to understand what is wrong with a man of that age being romantically involved with a child who is that much younger.
2006-06-17 13:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cindy P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sagar: this is a good question. your parents want be happy unless the person is a millionaire. But you have to think of your future with an older man. you see, you are now testing the waters, you may find that the man is loving but you will always find something wrong. on the otherhand the young man that you will soon meet could be just as bad. know that this is what you want and ask your parents to bless you for wanting to make your own decisions. contact me I need more to give you better answer. Im Johnnie form San Antonio Texas at laretha.davis@sbcglobal.net
2006-06-17 13:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That age difference, because the girl is a minor, is way out of line. A 35 year old person should not be even considering a 15 year old as a boyfriend or girlfriend. A 35 year old man needs to be more responsible than that and realize this could be his daughter or his daughters friends. I think a man like that needs counseling or...castration.
2006-06-17 13:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah Jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a 35 year old man is a predator and you should get away soon you are 16 you are far too young to know about love get an education plan a career make your own money and then in about 15 or 20 years you can pick and choose the man for your life go to church and read your bible that man will hurt you be a kid for as long as you can
2006-06-17 13:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by jkpoet2@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 16 year old shouldn't be "dating" a 35 year old.
2006-06-17 13:02:29 · answer #7 · answered by margarita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow listen to words of wisdom. You are young STOP TRYING TO GROW UP SO FAST. If this man really loves you he will not try to be with you until you are old enough. When you are young you should focus on school and your friends and hang out having fun being young. Im speaking from experience grown man have no business with little girls. He can mess with your mind and you won't even know it. There will be more than enough time for you to be with this man when you are older. May be not even with him. And I'm sure you are very mature for your age. But honey enjoy your life while you are young. Your parents may be upset to hear about your friend but they would rather protect you than for you to get hurt. Speak to them. You'll see.
2006-06-17 14:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man of 35 who dates a 16 year old doesn't want a mature relationship. He's too experienced for you. I can just hear the BS he's filling your head with. If you're having sex I hope he gets arrested. Dump the geezer and concentrate on school and your family and friends.
2006-06-17 13:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by stward101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to you, but there's only one thing a 35 year old man wants from a 16 year old and it's not true blue love. He is sick. Trust me.
2006-06-17 13:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah,
that is pretty bad i mean...if you were 16 and he was 19 or 20 then that is a lot more reasonable even though you both love each other you should probably back off until your 18 i mean ....35 that is just crazy ; )
/kevin
2006-06-17 13:04:31 · answer #11 · answered by skata_kev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋