would you date a guy who dated your best girl friend before?
2006-06-17 12:53:47 · 37 answers · asked by mystery 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would but only if he didnt hurt her
2006-06-17 12:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if she were still my friend Then I want to know why they broke up and what kind of man is he or boy I would not date anyone that is not God fearing and into living a clean life I would not date anyone that did not follow Jesus and go to church
2006-06-17 12:59:31 · answer #2 · answered by jkpoet2@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That truely would depend on the situation. My tendancy is to lean towards no, but there are factors to consider as well. What caused their relationship to end? Was the guy good to her? How does she feel about it? If the guy was good to her and the relationship ended on good terms (they just werent right for each other) and she doesnt mind (isnt just saying so but truely doesnt mind), then I might...
2006-06-17 13:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by Virginia L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would really depend on how serios the relationship was with my friend and whether or not I was willing to lose my friend. Even if a friend tells you they don't mind if you date their ex, it really isn't ok and will eventually ruin the friendship. You should be able to talk to your friends about anything. How do you talk to your friend about her ex? I would say no, I wouldn't date my friends ex.
2006-06-17 12:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would, but I'd make sure that it was open and above board and that everyone involved was cool with it.
I'd also have a pact with my best friend not to discuss the guy together.
2006-06-17 12:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there are plenty of other men to date other then my best friends
2006-06-17 16:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes....IF
1. you know him to be a good and decent guy, and
2. sufficient time passed since relationship ended (1+ years), or
3. if sooner, then you got your friend's approval, OR
4. you are nearly 100% sure that he is THE love of your life
2006-06-17 12:59:43 · answer #7 · answered by Signilda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heckkkkkkkk no! My best friend means entirely too much to me to risk jeopardizing our friendship because of some dude...
2006-06-17 12:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by boxerpitk9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its depends how long they were going out,how long ago they went out, how intimate they were,and how deep were their feelings for each other. another question would be if your friend minds you dating him but asking that would depend on the answers to the other questions.
2006-06-17 13:00:28 · answer #9 · answered by cTz FiNeSt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doubt.
i'll be afraid that she minds.
i cant tell her anything as it may affect her one way or another.
unless they dated like 5 yrs ago and she is totally over it.
but if u really like him,just do it.no regrets.
do have a heart to heart talk abt tis to her.
2006-06-17 12:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by fake-imitiation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, cause there is a good chance that they might still have feelings for each other. And when i bring up the situation about him, she might feel awkward.
2006-06-17 12:56:32 · answer #11 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋