we had been flirting back and forth for over a year and finally one night he called up and we went to town!!!! I mean went to town and back.. the next 2 days kept making sweet comments to me about it and smiled at me everytime he saw me, I don't need to hear from him everyday, I don't want him to think that I am a leech or anything, but I would like to hear from him over the weekend, do you think he will call? I am not going to call him.. NOT GOING TO DO IT!! I REFUSE.... but if he don't call should I be upset? I will for sure see him again on Monday and I won't know how to react when I do..... What do you think?
2006-06-17 12:43:41 · 10 answers · asked by please??? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he really likes you and it seems as though he WOULD call you but if he doesn't don't worry about it. Maybe he was nervous and didn't want to seem desperate or clingy either.
2006-06-17 13:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by compassion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait three days and if he doesn't call, move on.
When he calls, be yourself. Try not to be nervous. Just talk to him as if you've known him forever.
I think he will call soon. Do not call him. Do not seem desperate.
On Monday, pretend not to care if he hasn't called. Maybe something came up. Again, Do not seem desperate!!!!
Good Luck!
2006-06-17 19:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to calm down, just relax. If you act like this you're either going to drive him away or drive yourself crazy.
Forget about him calling, go out with your friends and have a good time. That way he'll see you have a life and he'll want to be a part of it.
2006-06-17 19:46:59 · answer #3 · answered by danyol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he'll call. Now, forget all you've heard about "rules." If you have the urge to call.....CALL. Now, if you don't and then he doesn't, don't get upset.......you can, and you have all the right in the world. Just don't stay upset.......he won't even know. Just pick up the phone and call. When you get upset, it only affects you. Pick up the phone.......Good Luck!!
2006-06-17 19:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by gitmomagic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just flirts naturally and like the attention. Watch out for those look for the signs you couldalways make the 1st move and give him YOUR #.
2006-06-17 19:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Debbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry... just act like you didn't even realize he was supposed to call. If he's like me he was probally prying the phone out of his own hands... I don't want it to look like i'm the one "chasing" the girl. I'll play hard to get... maybe not even call for a week or two.... probally a bad idea... but thats just me
2006-06-17 19:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by dmc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys won't call every night so don't be upset If he doesn't you have to realize to that when and if he says he will call you later it doesn't always mean that night.
2006-06-17 19:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to see him Monday, why is it so important to get a call from him?
2006-06-17 19:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him 2-3 days
2006-06-17 19:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dont call dont get mad because you both got what you both wanted. HE will call again when he wants some more.
2006-06-17 19:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by TinkerBell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋