there is this guy named Ryan. Ever school year we get back together but we always break up. Once when we were broken up we had to sit boy girl boy girl. i had to sit by him and his mean friend. When i was there they teased me about being part asian but im like so what. and they were really mean. and they talked about alot of nasty stuff_____. He is really nice when he is not around that friend but that is his best friend. I dont know what to. Girls Guy help me. and tell the absolute truth i dont want no sappy stuff. He really hurt me but part of me wants him back!!!!
2006-06-17 12:39:15 · 8 answers · asked by beach babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont waste your time..you are too young
2006-06-17 12:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Yenny V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright girlie .. you want honesty here it goes .. \
i went out w. a guy adam for 2 1/2 years we broke up so many times it was unbelievable .. but for some reason we always ended up back together .. sometimes it would last months and once it lasted 3 days .. He was an amazing guy .. but .. when he was around his best friend alex i hated him he was a completly different person .. i wanted to just beat the crap outta him when he was around alex bc i mean he was a ..... u know what .. well .. finally we had broken up bc i couldnt take it anymore .. & he asked me why i told him hey its bc ur a different person when your around yoru friends .. well .... the sad thing was he didnt even notice it he said .. he just treated me like any other person .. and wasnt treating me like his girlfrien thats what he said .. well ... i told him you know you treat me better or were done .. and he treated me bad still what did i do i broke up with him .... & i havent took him back and i dnt regret it he has tryied changeing and was nice infront of his friends but it was to late .. but what you have to do .. is stick up for yourself and tell him whats up andn tell him you cant treat you like a freakin dog .. you know you need to talk to him ... be brave and dont be a baby .. talk to him and be stubborn about it because its ok to be .. do what you have to do .. and dont ...make any regrets
2006-06-17 19:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ironicical Dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF I WAS U I WOULDNT GO BACK WITH HIM FOR THE SIMPLE REASON OF HIS FRIEND EVEN THOUGH THAT IS HIS BEST FRIEND.. TELL HIM TO GO CUDDLE WITH HIM SINCE HE WANTS TO BE A JOKE ABOUT THE ON AND OFF RELATIONSHIP AND U BEING PART ASIAN. YOU DONT NEED THAT ESPECIALLY IF U THINK U DESERVE BETTER. WHEN HE IS WITH HIS FRIEND HE IS SUPPOSE TO TREAT U LIKE HIS GF. WHAT WILL BE THE POINT IN HIM HAVING ONE IF HIM AND HIS FRIEND ARE ONLY GOING TO TALK ABOUT YOU. GET WITH SOMEBODY WHO APPRECIATES YOU AND DOESNT TREAT U ANY DIFFERENT BEING AROUND HIS FRIENDS OR U 2 BEING ALONE. THERE ARE THOSE KIND OF MEN OUT THERE ..THEY ARE NOT ALL GONE YET.!!
2006-06-17 19:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just go. If he's only nice to when he's alone with you, then he maybe be double-faced/double standard. Also have you talk to him directly about it? Sometimes some people are not smart enough to know why they got dumped or such. If you haven't talk to him about it, give him at least a chance to redeem, but if there's no improvement on his part... You should just leave, you will find plenty of guys out there other than him.
2006-06-23 16:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dj Noeck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to like his friend more than he likes you. Just dump him, and don't look back. He is showing you a major lack of respect, and by going back and forth with him you are allowing him to continue treating you so poorly. Find a new guy that will treat you with respect. You are a beautiful person, and you don't need the problems.
2006-06-17 19:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant treat you like a young lady then dont waste your time with him. Cause it seems that he is a jerk whenever his friend is around. You dont need a guy like that.
2006-06-17 19:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, if he's going to treat u like that when he's with his friend
2006-06-17 19:43:25 · answer #7 · answered by shelby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him! If he treats you like crap, you don't need him.
2006-06-17 19:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋