2006-06-17 12:28:46 · 34 answers · asked by asking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him Yes he is cheating or wants to cheat. You cna do better
2006-06-17 12:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Layla 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, during the 3-some, he is technically cheating cuz he is having sex with another person. He prolly is cheating if he wants to have a 3-some but there is no way to tel.
2006-06-17 12:32:37 · answer #2 · answered by Pinky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nearly every guy fantasizes about having a threesome. Same thing goes for having sex with a redhead, black woman, blonde, brunette, porn star, MILF, mother-daughter, twins, etc. Just because someone fantasizes about something doesn't mean he will do it, and does not mean he is cheating. It is natural for men to imagine the possibilities, and there is not a man alive who hasn't thought about another woman. If a threesome is something that sounds good too you, give it a try. You only get around this crazy life one time. You got to try it all. Just make sure the boundaries are discussed before trying it. For example, are you and your bf going to focus on the third girl, are both girls going to please the guy? BTW, my experience with threesomes is that its too much work. I would rather focus on just one person.
2006-06-17 12:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Shawn H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think that is a good enough reason to accuse him of cheating or even thinking about cheating on you. My BF asks me for the same thing and I know I please him. It is a fantasy that most guys have. Me, I wouldn't give my BF that pleasure though I think about it, I just feel it is too risky for our relationship. It is something he probably wouldn't be able to stop thinking about once it happened and I wouldn't want that on his mind. But if you decide to choose a straight up gay female.
2006-06-17 12:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every guy in the world wants a three some. The third person could be a filthy pig it just doesn't matter. I doubt he is cheating on you. If he was he would not want his g/f and lover in the same bed together.
2006-06-17 12:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by kukkanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, thats a form of cheating. But he calls it a 3some he don't want to do it behind ur back so he wants to do it with a 3rd peson( and I bet he said that he wants to see u with the girl,,, right) thats so he can work his way in and he and she will end up having sex together( while ur there watching)
So u have to make up your mind if u want to do this to please him or dump him because he's pulling one over on you
2006-06-17 12:36:16 · answer #6 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probaly just wants to experiment with other forms of sexual acts within the relationship and is asking your permission about it, it doesnt mean he's actually going to do it, but if you say yes then more than likely he will be ready...but i suggest that you dont do anything that you think will harm the relationship now or in the future...people have fantasies and they are best applied if their partner agrees to them as well..it doesnt mean he's cheating though...
2006-06-17 12:41:02 · answer #7 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men want it. thats not special. it doesnt mean hes cheating, although if you think about it, a threesome is him cheating, just with you in the room. and threesomes are often painful. to many knees and elbows. black eyes, bruises, groin injuries...
you might agree to it if he agrees that the third party be another man. it IS only fair.
2006-06-17 12:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by janushyde01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was cheating he wouldn't tell you that he wants a 3-some but, if he wants a 3-some he shouldn't commited with one person just yet.
If you decide to do it you should totally ignore him to see his reaction as you are doing it lol
2006-06-17 12:36:35 · answer #9 · answered by Gilbert O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought that way when my hubby wanted a 3some. Ive been telling him no and continue to do so (for my own reasons though) he just wants to spice up your sex life...a little more excitement into it. in my case, i told him as long as it wasnt anyone that i really knew, like my close friends. afterwards, it would be really weird to see them, or their close friends for that fact.
its in your own heart to decide. ive stuck to my guns and said no by my own personal choice. he's respected my decision and i know he's not cheating on me.
2006-06-17 12:33:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋