we have been dating 2 months, so we are still in the sort of new phase...where we look forward to seeing one another so much. i talked to him wed night and he was talking about us going to the adirondacks for july 4th weekend...he told me he missed me so much and cant stand this whole distance thing(we live 3 hrs apart) after that talk, i havent heard from him...we usually talk a couple times a day....but it has been almost 4 days. what do you think happened? its like he fell off the face of the earth.
2006-06-17 12:01:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way ....i am 26 and hes 35
2006-06-17 12:07:48 · update #1
ive tried calling...no answer.
2006-06-17 12:09:40 · update #2
last weekend when i saw him...i let him know how truly difficult the disance is...and he said...we can either deal with it or not...but he would prefer staying together. everytime i visit him we hang out with his fam...so i know hes not married
2006-06-17 12:19:48 · update #3
A long distance relationship,usually doesn't work out,It seems that hes discovered someone where he lives.if he truly cares let him call you,but don't continue to call him and not receive a call back I know its easier said than done .cut him off you've done nothing wrong.,that your calls go UN answered.
2006-06-17 12:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are making into something bigger than it really is.
I know 3 hrs seem like a distance thang but it's why not try living a whole ocean away from one another.
You say it's been like four days since you have heard from him, I wouldn't say that something is wrong just maybe something has come up, and I don't mean another female but maybe family or something, or may be his job or something.
Don't worry too much until you actually talk to him because a lot of times guys his age feel like they are grown and do not have to answer to anyone. So when you do catch up with him just tell him that you just worry about him when you don't hear from him like that and just drop you a line when he get a chance next time to say that something has come up.
You don't want to chase him away right? and you don't want him to think that you are not mature enough to handle this relationship either right?
So just be patience and let him know how you feel.
Good Luck.....( =
2006-06-17 12:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Angel 68 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is a bit strange, but the old saying goes "no news is good news, may apply. Is it a cost thing as he can't afford the long distance rates? How often do you see him in person? He could be very busy, but that excuse never washed when I used it as it only takes a few minutes to call or E-mail to say "Howdy, sugar , I miss you etc,etc XXOO". Don't worry though as that won't help you a bit. Good Luck.
2006-06-17 12:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a list pick one
1. Distance was too much and he met someone
2. He's busy and hasn't had time to call
3. A situation came up and he will call soon
4. He is unable to call
5. Something happened during your last call and he thinks you don't care
6. Someone said something about you.
Without knowing him or your relationship its impossible to tell what real reason is. Simple solution is call him yourself and ask!
2006-06-17 12:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not like women,We just say what we have to say.
We Joke around but very rarely get into this lovey dovey phone talk. Don`t be a clinging vine or you will kill the relationship.
See my answer - Plain and simple .
2006-06-17 12:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't fallen off the face of the earth,
he may be busy with family( I know he still could call) but may be something with family is keeping him from calling. U can alsways call him and see if he's still on the face of the earth =-)
and ask him whatsup
2006-06-17 12:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think over your conversation you last had with him. Think about what could have been said that you over looked. Call him and ask him what's up!
Don't get all bent out of shape though, it could be nothing and then women instincts kick in pretty fast when they dont trust thier companions.
2006-06-17 12:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im not much good at this but heres my opinion, your boyfriend has either been super busy w/ school, or has been hanging out w/ friends, if its neither than i would call him a bring it up iin a good manered way and see whats happening
2006-06-17 12:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Squirrel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt worry about what happened to him, thatll only get you stressed out. one time i hadnt talked to my best friend for 3 days and i thought he'd died.. Ha figured his cable was only out dont worry he'll show up soon enough
2006-06-17 12:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by sam_star700 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...I'd be losing it too. Is there a chance he is married and got caught?
2006-06-17 12:16:27 · answer #10 · answered by lisalisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋