2006-06-17 11:30:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Just Kidding!
2006-06-17 11:38:49 · update #1
jana bo nana, you say you have one gay firend and yet you spout about gays and how they deal with monogamy as though you are an excpert, you are not you know nothing about gay people except how to defame them.
2006-06-21 06:31:16 · update #2
nobody cares zzzzz
2006-06-17 11:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just because you turn your back on the gay lifestyle and abstain from sexual immorality doesn't mean you are ruining your life and it doesn't mean that you have to run out and get married to a woman and have a family. As a matter of fact..you shouldn't. There is nothing that you are giving up that you will not be ashamed of later. Anyone that chooses to keep their lives free of sinful choices in order to glorify God and devote themselves to service of Him can do nothing else but profit. Sexual sin is sin no matter how you slice it. If you were to marry and have children, odds are you wouldn't remain faithful. Gay men are the least likely to ever remain monogomous even with each other in their professed "committed relationship." Why? Because sex isn't love and our sexual desires have not much to do with happiness or lifetime commitments with our life partner. I have one friend who is gay that happens to also be a christian and he struggles with it..but its better now than it used to be and he feels more hope every day. He does not date and he knows that except for his family and friends he will more than likely never be blessed with children or marriage but he is free. I believe him because there is nothing keeping him from doing as he pleases except his own will and its the same for any person gay or strait to obstain from sexual immorality. I would be happy for you if you would put away your hatefulness and the idea that any other choice besides the "gay" choice would ruin your life. You can only win, only have victory and true Joy by giving your life to God. I can't even fathom how the Angels in heaven would rejoice in your case..because the struggle is so vast..but its not impossible. With Christ all things are possible. I will pray for you. Love in Christ, ~J~ <><
2006-06-17 11:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be so angry at yourself and everyone else. If you do take a future wife, for whatever reason. Don't Have kids!!!!! They would be innocents! Lifes not fair is it, so why would you even think of doing something like that to future children. You'd be just a big angry father, probably take it out on them , too. Grow Up you big baby!!!!!
2006-06-17 11:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by jenny in ohio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Read 2 Cor 23-24. Emphasis on verse 24.
2006-06-17 11:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by J. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like this people and that people because they don't agree with me, shall I ruin my life too so that they will be happy?
I don't think people care in general. What you do to yourself, you're the only one who's responsible.
Either way, nothing in this world is carefree whatever choices you make, you just gonna have to make the best of it and not be carried away by people's judgemental opinions.
Live life as it's suppose to be.
2006-06-17 11:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by *♥£öVe§♥* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not base your happiness on the happiness of others. I understand where you're coming from though, many of us heteros want to destroy all that others live for. I am a non-conformist though.
I pray that you find what you are looking for.
Good luck and God Bless.
2006-06-17 11:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do the wife from behind and imagine it's a dude. That way you keep her happy, you happy and, if you don't mess up and put it in the wrong hole, you don't even have to worry about having those kids.
2006-06-17 11:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by martin b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are gay why are you changing because of what others think about you? why ruin your life and others because you are trying to satisfy others. sweetie do what is best for you and chill out. maybe if you listened to yourself instead of others you can be happy too. to ruin your own life is fine if that is what you what but to ruin others is cruel and mean especially innocent children. good luck sweetie.
2006-06-17 11:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by wonderwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you do that? You are who you are, and I'm sure that God loves you for who you are.
You would not only be ruining your own life--but think of the poor woman you would marry--and the children. I think that you should think about this some more. :)
2006-06-17 11:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's stop the fooling around & b.s. Is it yes or is it no? Should I stay or should I go? This is it for real, can't take no more. I mean it. If it's to be let's go for it. If not than so be it. Do me the honor of telling it as it is........You know what we're both going thru.......It's the real deal, isn't it.....~p~ <3
2006-06-17 11:41:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!....You Control Your Own Life!....Whatever Floats Your Boat!
2006-06-17 11:35:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋