well there this girl that i really like but i dont know if she sees me as a friend or boyfriend she thinks that i see her as a friend because i have never told her that i like her or tried 2 show it 2 her i have sometimes but i think she has the idea that i dont like her so i think she doesnt get it i want 2 know if she sees me as a boyfriend something she does are that she calls me everday and we talk for hours, she compliments me sometimes on my looks, when we talk she is always really close to me even if were with alot of people, she tells me alot of stuff but the thing that makes me really confused is that she might go out with this other guy i already knew but she told me herself she talks 2 me about him and stuff and she says that shes not sure if she is going 2 go out with him
2006-06-17 11:23:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie i think she likes you. tell her you like her maybe you guys will end up dating. the worst she can say is she only likes you as a friend and at least then you would know.
good luck
2006-06-17 11:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by mommaslosthermind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls (and guys, sadly) don't like dating people that they are already friends with. But there is no harm in asking her out. If you are afraid of losing her friendship then you should try making a pro/con list of asking her out.
If you feel confidant enough then just do it! Ask her out on a nice simple date that will get you two closer together physically that lets her know that you are in for more than just a friendship.
2006-06-17 18:29:08 · answer #2 · answered by Molly R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes ya...i kno cuz im kinda n da same situation...but i think with her as with me...like u said...she doesnt kno if u "like her like her." she's hinting around when she gives you compliments or w/e to see how you'll take it or how you'll respond. Maybe itz to test you and see if your interested somehow..these things are what i look for in my friend when i do this anyways...when i talk 2 my friend about the one i like or go with or whateva itz usually 2 c what he'll say about the situation...like, if you try 2 help them out she'll probably see it as you givin her away to him..lol i dont kno if you followed that but thatz the only way i can describe it at tha moment and if you try 2 help her out..she'll see it as you do like her and want her. but you'll have to tell her for her 2 b sure..when my friend told me it was too late...the relationship will probably never work now...so..basically...just tell her how you feel..listen to her..not only with your ears but with your heart...
I cant tell you how she feels itz just that it sounds exactly like what im going thru now..and if it is then this will more than likely help you ALOT
2006-06-17 18:37:51 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow some balls and ask her out. whats the worst that can happen? shes not gunna shun you as a friend for it. ask her, its win win. you cant lose, buddy.
and about talking to you about another guy, shes droppin fat hints to you that shes more interested in you then him. maybe shes even doing it subconciously. just ask her while shes so unsure about the other guy, before its too late and ur kickin urself later
2006-06-17 18:26:49 · answer #4 · answered by Oh, Natey-O! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she thinks as you as a friend because if she talks to you about another guy that is might go out with.......
2006-06-17 18:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by jtom0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just say hey, do i have a chance with you.
i mean you already have a friendship, and that is the best way to start a realtionship with someone. you are already comfortable talking to eachother and that will make asking her easier.
just don't let the answer ruin what you already have.
2006-06-17 18:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out!She's probly saying that stuff to test you to see if u like her.She probly wants to see if your going to say anything to her if she starts talking about another guy...she wants to make u jelouse so you'll say something to her about liking another guy.Girls do that even I do. it's just a way of finding out if he likes you.
2006-06-17 18:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by shelby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is ur friend
why dont u ask her out n c how she feels about it?
2006-06-17 18:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by irena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her thats is the only way your going to find out.
2006-06-17 18:27:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you like her and that you wanna knoe if the feelings are the same and if they are not then tell her that you wanna be just close friendz then.
2006-06-17 18:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by kass0frass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋