I have been seeing this guy for couple months but i dont get to see him that much we live in different stated..and i saw him this past weekend and he told me he loved me as we were making love i was shocked but didnt say it back even though i think i do love him. Is it hard for a guy to say I LOVE YOU and do u think he really ment it even though we havent been together that long ?
2006-06-17 11:09:55 · 8 answers · asked by dream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not hard for a guy to say "I love you". All he has to do is look at your breasts, or touch you, and those words will come flying out of his mouth.
2006-06-17 11:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? I don't think either one of you knows what love really is. Its not hard for a guy to say "I Love You". On the contrary, it comes out of their mouths easily because they think by saying that you will want to be with only him, while he's out and about getting laid and saying the very same thing to other girls who are local to him. How you could feel that you are in love with him as well is a blind statement. You should try and lust for guys local to you and make some attempt at really understanding what love is about. If you think he's going to be loyal to you because he said he loves you, you're in for a rude awakening. Its just kind of his way of putting a hold on you until he can come visit and get laid by you again being that it was so easy. By the way, you weren't making love, you were two young kids having sex. You have no idea what love is and until you do, you will only experience a lot of heartache. I wish you the best, and my you learn to make wiser decisions in your future.
2006-06-17 11:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it's hard for most guys to say, "I love you" but so very much easier, when he's making love to that girl.
You know how hard and difficult it is, trying to maintain a long distance romance. They never work, sad but true.
It would be better, if you found someone nearby, that you can see often, and don't have to spend all day, just getting there to be with him.
The old adage, GUD for geographically undesirable date, still holds true.
2006-06-17 11:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was saying he loved having sex with you given the timing and all. it's not hard for a guy to say it, it is hard for him to mean it though. it's hard to tell the difference between lust and love sometimes. they both are very powerful. I'm not preaching here but the bible is full of wisdom even if you don't believe in it. and that is why it tells you to wait until after marriage to have sex, so you will know the difference between lust and love.
2006-06-17 11:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if a guy tells you something while he's on top of you it's not to be taken seriously. When he says it to you when you're cooking dinner, or anything else less intense then you know it's real.
2006-06-17 11:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by raynesonyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is a kinda hard for a guy to say i love you the're a little nervous sometimes. if he said it fast then no he doesn't really love you that much
2006-06-17 11:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by Timothy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy will always say it during sex but rarely after
2006-06-17 11:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never say the words unless you mean them. but yeh it can be that he loves you.
2006-06-17 11:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋