I have a boyfriend and there are some of my male friends he does not know about. should i tell him
2006-06-17 10:53:31 · 15 answers · asked by 42DD 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
nah. i do it all the time.
2006-06-17 11:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by i luv penguins =0p 6 · 5⤊ 3⤋
You should definitely tell him. My best friend is male and my boyfriend is MORE comfortable knowing that there will never be anything between us. However if your boyfriend thinks there is another guy and doesn't know that you are just friends it could cause controversy for you later on. It's better that he know now and get accustomed to the fact that you have male friends than just thinking something else the whole time like maybe you're cheating. Everyone needs friends of the opposite sex and if you think that your boyfriend can't handle the fact that you have male friends and that's the reason you aren't telling him then he's not the right guy for you but if you keep going on like this you could end up with a big problem later on and regret not addressing it earlier. It could potentially ruin your relationship but wouldn't you want to find out now rather than it hurting more in the end?
2006-06-17 11:02:25 · answer #2 · answered by easternchic2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell your boyfriend that you have male friends so he doesn't think your cheating try not to hide anything from him so he wouldn't have to find out from anybody else and if that happens that will be a disaster so try to tell him the truth always even if your scared it might hurt him
2006-06-17 10:59:42 · answer #3 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on staying with him for a while then yes you should tell him about your friends - whether they are male or female. If you are just casually dating him with no commitment then you don't need tell him quite yet.
2006-06-17 10:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not really.If you think he won't react badly you can. It all depends on the kind of person he is. My boyfriend doesn't care. I even talk to him about them so it's not a big deal.
2006-06-17 11:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Malaysia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way my boyfriend knows about my friends heck one of my friends is his twin brother it doesent really matter just make sure when he finds out he doesent find out from anyone but you.and make sure he knows you arent cheating on him.
2006-06-17 10:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if you want to lose him. just slow back away from your male friends and you will be ok or tell him and break up.
2006-06-17 10:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by bigguy19_77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him about your friends let him meet them...it wont be that big of a deal i dont think...just tell him nothing is up...and when he does meet them...hang on him and show him that he is who you really care about...just so that he feels secure
2006-06-17 10:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by .... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. But as long your not foolong around with them behind his back it should be cool enough to tell him
2006-06-17 10:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bad to have guy friends.just as long as ther guy (freinds)but just to be on the safe side tell yo boy.
2006-06-17 10:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by desteneyrogersangelbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dishonesty is not the basis of a good relationship
2006-06-17 10:56:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋