My ex girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago saying that she didn't want to be in a serious relationship because she's young and still wanted to have fun. But she told me that she would regret about breaking up with me and asked me if I would take her back when she's done "having fun". I know this is totally selfish of her, but it's part of my fault cuz I had been treating her like a princess and giving whatever she asked for.
Since the breakup, she's been going out with people (mostly guys) every night. She's making me so jealous and upset. I like her a lot and tried to tell her my feelings for her but I'm just so sick of being so devastated and childish. I need to move on but I want to at least make her feel sorry for dumping me.
any suggestions?
2006-06-17 10:44:53 · 5 answers · asked by Nate 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, I think exactly like ur gf. I been wantin to ask de same of my bf who also treats me like a princess. I think she really appreciates you, but shes just not ready for a proper monogamous relationship. Some people just have this urge to go out into the world and taste everythin and jus have a blast, before settling down. Shes young, and this is de time when she can get all that attention, this is de age when its ok to fool around.Let her have what she wants. If you really love her, your priority shd be her happiness and not expecting her to want what you want. Atleast she didnt choose to do all this behind your back. She was straight and honest with you. Even if she had suppressed her desires and decided to stay with you, in the future she would have thought abt all the fun she has missed and maybe blamed/resented you for that. Just try to see things frm her viewpoint. The fact that she would like to have you back in the future for a serious thing shows that she thinks you are a quality guy, but shes not ready as yet to be tied down. People want different things. I can understand that you feel this is not fair. Jus be open-minded, mature and let go. And please dont be so bitter as to seek revenge. If you give yourself some time, you'll be fine.
I am sorry, if my answer has offended you in any way. God bless you.
2006-06-17 11:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ladylove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don't take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you'll let her go, that's it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn't want to, then you need to let her go.
2014-10-24 17:39:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. Rejection sucks, especially when it's hard to figure out what you did wrong. If you really want to make her feel jealous, take a date out somewhere that you know she will be. And in the meantime, realize that you'll find the right woman at the night time. And never apologize for treating a woman wtih respect. That's what all women want.
2006-06-17 17:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by jacket1996 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a good guy. The most important thing is not to force things that aren't there. If she's not ready then you can't make her be, and if you try to force it you'll be even more hurt in the end. So try to go on with your life, maybe you two will work out later, but you have to just let things flow naturally.
2006-06-17 17:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Just trying to find out... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting revenge is not a good thing. but if you end up finding someone totally hot and accidently walk past her one day. oops she saw and might get jealous.
2006-06-17 17:50:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋