He is white and I'm black & both geminis in our 20s. We have connected so much it's scary. I think that we both feel like we're soulmates. We have tried to slow down with our feelings especially in expressing them but it's hard. He is the most sweetest guy I've talked to before. I've never felt like this with any man in my life. I get so excited about it working but kinda worry that he won't like me (we plan to meet very soon). But he says he have a strong feeling he will and we could still be friends anyway. I just feel so nervous and shy to meet I'm not gonna know what to say or do. I am hoping so badly that he likes me too. Also we have everything in common from all of the things we've talked about. And for some reason I think that we may have too much in common and somehow it's just too good to be true. We both have been single for awhile and seem so desperate to find real love. I want to meet him so he won't feel it's been a waste of time. Does this seem like it will work? Any adv
2006-06-17 10:30:21 · 9 answers · asked by Tracee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't have a cam or pics that's why we plan to meet probably next week. We live about 2 hours away in different cities too. I like this man so much I would give anything for it to work. I'm just so scared now to meet him but I'm still going to meet him.
2006-06-17 10:38:07 · update #1
Right now it seems like the two of you are building a solid foundation for the relationship. It is easier when both parties is in the relationship because they genuinely like the other person and their main attraction to the relationship is not the physical attraction of their mate.
Relationships are going to have their ups and downs but when both parties are willing to work at it there is nothing preventing you from being happy together. If your feelings for this guy is genuine you should pursue the relationship at a pace that you are comfortable with. Realize that there are going to be mistakes made along the way and their will be people hating on your happiness but that is a part of life. Move at a pace that you are comfortable with and make sure you keep the lines of communication open.
2006-06-17 10:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by dscot399 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, it's dangerous to meet up with people offline,so be careful.if you are gonna go through with it send your picture first,a full bodyshot so he can see if he is intrested physically, sometimes that's all it is when you meet people that way so hold back your feelings until you see what's up.someone told me if it's too good to be true then it's not true.
but you never know until you know. you also have to think about his age, how many guys in their 20's are really serious about relationships,but then again he may be mature for his age. just be careful
and take your time,if he's in a rush drop him,he looking for some action.
well i hope and wish the best of luck to you.
2006-06-17 10:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by kizzy f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel great about it! I really don't mind interracial dating. I think its beautiful when people can express their feelings and not bow to the status que placed on us by society. People forget the culture of america and so it seems, there isn't what they would describe a "problem" with this situation, They choose not to address it, well the "problem" is people being color blind, to the specifics of the word, BLIND TO THE COLORS AROUND YOU. They are unwilling to accept them and hence they are not there or you are blind to them. I don't believe in color blindness, its ignorance, it needs to change, be aware of the wonderous variety around you and accept it. I Think its extremly interesting to learn about other people's ways of life. I think its really sad that people of any race can simply 'dis' others becuase they are of any color.
2006-06-29 01:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the sign of immaturity, it truly is unhappy to assert. A mature individual takes trip and evaluates what went incorrect interior the final relationship, formerly happening to a distinctive one. flow forward and save making the comparable errors. it truly is apperant which you do no longer comprehend what you like. Do each and every person a desire, locate out who you're, and what you like out of life, formerly hurting somebody else. Be considerate of alternative feeelings. What is going around, comes around. you will get what you supply quicker or later. do the excellent ingredient.
2016-10-31 01:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I MET MY FRIEND ON LINE WE TALK ON THE PHONE ON DEC.28, 2003 AND ON DEC. 29 HE MOVE IN WITH ME WE GOT MARRY ON MARCH 2, 2004 AND BEEN HAPPY EVERY SINCE SOMETIMES YOU HALF TO TAKE A CHANCE BUT IN THE SAME TIME BE CAREFUL I FELT IN LOVE WITH HIM THE FIRST DAY I MET HIM HE IS THE SECOND BEST THING THAT HAPPEN TO ME BESIDES GOD AND MY KIDS.
2006-06-17 10:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by teressis_freeman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is black and white and red all over?
An Interracial couple in a car accident.
2006-06-17 10:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the plunge and send him your photo and then meet up. I mean what have you got to lose???
2006-06-17 10:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be carefull meet in a very public place
2006-06-17 10:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by we_c_it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wat are you afraid of gurl, if you like him and he feels the same about you why wait you might be missing out on a once in lifetime chance.....
2006-06-17 10:35:14 · answer #9 · answered by sucamorie90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋