everytime im gonna leave him..... he has all these beach trips lined up! what to do.........I know thats not a good reason to stay but damn why he tempt me.
2006-06-17 10:28:28 · 18 answers · asked by safarlsun33 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean I can go on the trips with him but then id have to stay longer, like another month at least.....
2006-06-17 10:31:02 · update #1
You don't provide enough information to answer your question.
2006-06-17 10:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to come back from the beach sometime and staying around for those kinds of trips is not only detrimental for you but it's detrimental for him as well. Don't let your temptations get in the way of what you know is right. Why are you leaving? Are you really doing the right thing by leaving or are you just trying to get the point across that things aren't going the way they should be going. You need to address one problem at a time. Maybe a beach trip is a time that you need to solve some of the problems that you've been having, time for you two to spend alone talking and sorting things out. If you're just going to the beach to run away from the problems that you've been having they're going to be right there waiting when you get back. Give the effort to fix things and then if they can't be mended then it's time for you to go...without the beach trips.
2006-06-17 17:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by easternchic2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mate life's too short to be stuck in a relationship that your not really into. If you really want to leave him then do it, because if you don't you just might wake up 20 years down the track & regret the life you've had with the bloke lying beside you, & you only get 1 shot at life & you don't get to come back & have another go.
2006-06-17 17:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by cotts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why stay just to go to the beach? if you are unhappy then leave, don't just use him for a free trip to the beach. but i think you need to rethink why you want to leave cuz you still sound like you like him.
2006-06-17 17:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by baby_blaque 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using it as a carrot to dangle in front of you because he knows you are not happy. It's best to address the relationship issues and not stay because you simply want to go to the beach.
2006-06-17 17:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by femmenoire@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, why would you want to leave him? If everytime you try to leave him and he brings up all the wonderful things you wants to do with you, it clearly shows that he loves you very much and he does not want to lose you at all.
2006-06-17 17:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a genuine motivation for leaving, you wd have gone
by now. So stay on and enjoy the bribes.!
2006-06-17 17:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes trying to let you go gently.Confront him about it and if he still wants you hell blow some off.Or if he says no,leave that no good liar.Bc if he says no to put some off,hes probally cheating.just do what your heart tells you.
2006-06-17 17:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are unhappy then why not leave no matter what you can always go to the beach on your own
2006-06-17 17:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready to go. Go. Do not allow yourself and your better judgement to be swayed by bribery.
2006-06-17 17:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
evidently doll baby he wants to make it up to you. so they say, but even though busy men dont have time for their hunnies they always find a way to please ,in return to make up lost time i dont know what the deal is with your man but hunny it's going to be all right .
2006-06-17 17:34:54 · answer #11 · answered by Liyah B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋