my boyfriend and i have been daing for a while now and we just started having sex.... and now it seems that its the only thing we agree on. I want have a conversation an actualyl spend time with him doing something productive than just hoppin in the sac with him... any suggestions on hwo to talk to him or how to benefit my relationship?
2006-06-17 10:12:40 · 5 answers · asked by dead_killer_angel25607 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry to be the first to tell you but your relationship with him is headed in the wrong direction.Any relationship that is based on sex will not work out in the long run.I'm sure you really want to be with him but when
you stop the sexual behavior his feelings for you will change.Not for the better.He needs to respect you for who you are.Sex is not the answer if you plan on having a future with him.I'm sorry!
2006-06-17 10:27:23 · answer #1 · answered by John 5 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you got a good thing going. Just be careful what you wish for. IF he starts talking to you you might not like him very much. Stick with what works.
2006-06-17 17:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by ♥c0c0puffz♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll have to negotiate it with him: "I want to go out and do x, y, or z today, and when we get back we can have sex." While you're out doing whatever, you can turn him on with subtle little comments about what you'll be doing later. Trust me, this will drive him pretty well crazy and he'll soon learn to do anything you want.
2006-06-17 17:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by jackmack65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to go out to dinner sometime make it to where there isnt an opportunity for sex and if he doesnt agree with this sit him down and tell him how you really feel if he gets angry at you so what you're relationship CAN'T revolve around sex it wont work i promise
2006-06-17 17:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by blythe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better than nothing!
2006-06-17 17:16:45 · answer #5 · answered by love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋