he doesnt pay as much attention as before, i've even tried leading him on but he says he's too tired, and sometimes i think he's seing someone else behind my back ... i love him but now i don't know what to do..... help...
2006-06-17 10:06:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what, he's probably seeing someone else. Maybe thats why he has not been paying any attention to you. Just sit with him and talk to him, if that don't work, then just tell him that you love him all your heart and give him the best moment he ever had.
2006-06-17 10:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Spice, I think it really depends on how long you've been together, but if it hasn't been like 10 years or anything there should be no real reason you should have "spice" things up just yet. Most men (99% being probably most accurate) I know are never too tired no matter how hard they've worked that day. It's usually the woman trying to make her way out with that one. Maybe there is a chance of "performance issues" and he's embarrassed to talk to you about it, or last but never least, there could be the one last DOOZY...That other woman and that would definitely explain the fatigue...He simply has no more juice left for you. Whatever the case I would definitely talk to him about it. And don't quit until you get some answers. You shouldn't have to chase around a sex life!
2006-06-17 17:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by firexxxangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he's probably just not interested in you for reasons only he knows. It might be time to have a talk with him and find out what's going on, and if things don't get resolved, it might be a good idea to move out. There are so many reasons a guy will stop paying attention to his girlfriend, there's just not enough room on this forum to explain them all. What have you done to keep his attention. I know that sometimes when people get together, eventually move in together, they get very comfortable and stop doing all the things that attracted them to each other in the first place. Sorry I can't be much help, but this is just an opinion you might want to give some thought to.
2006-06-17 17:11:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is actually pretty common especially after living together for awhile. Have you heard the term "the honeymoons over" ? Thats kinda how it was developed. He still loves you but newness and excitement of anything wears out to some degree, but you do need to talk to him and see if there is more.
2006-06-17 17:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should he pay as much attention as before, he has what he wants-- free sex with no strings. If he is seeing someone else (which I doubt) you have nothing to hold him with. You've already given him everything you had to offer (physically and emotionally)
2006-06-17 17:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to dump him. If I lived with my BF he would be all over me all the time. If he isnt interested then he is either cheating or is bored with your relationship. Confront him. Ask him what the heck is going on. Then dump him if your relationship stays the same or gets worse.
2006-06-17 17:16:46 · answer #6 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything has become habit. i dont think he is seeing anyone. nothing is exciting for him anymore. youll have to up the anti and make it happen.
2006-06-17 17:10:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
either get a toy or a new man and quit complaining
2006-06-17 17:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by MS.SUGA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say follow him, and see what he's up to, or just stay loyal to him and talk to him about the topic
2006-06-17 17:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's bored, try something new, take it up the @$$ or something.
2006-06-17 17:19:14 · answer #10 · answered by Snake Dr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋