I know this question is probably asked all the time, but how do u know if ur best friend likes u?

Question

I'm 15. He's 14. I've known him for 10 yrs. We went out a year ago, but broke up b/c we're going to different schools and it would be difficult. He always calls me and wants to hang out. He also likes to make me laugh and basically remembers every little stupid thing I say. What he's doing right now is he's telling me he likes another girl, when me and my friends think he's flirting with me. I still like him. Does he like me back? Or do I just think wrong?

Answer 1

He will probably always remember every little stupid thing you say. It sounds like a first love relationship between you both. It is hard to make these last, so few people ever really end up with their first love. He is at an age now when he will be noticing every girl and woman around for the next 20 years; even after he gets married. He needs to sow wild oats and if you are meant to be with him, when he is ready to settle down he will come to you. Just be a friend and also do what you need to do at this point in your life.
Waiting and waiting and waiting, full of hope, is not a great way for a girl to live her life. You can grow old and sarcastic that way.
He is talking about another girl; that is his way to let you know he needs to be let go for awhile. Be a friend but don't be demanding or clingy or emotional with him. Find some other guys you can be demanding, emotional, and clingy with (ooops, not really, that was my sarcasm gene kicking in).
Do things and be with people you enjoy. Blossom where you are right now. Don't let yourself put all your eggs in one basket. You are just now starting to understand what you want your life to look like.
Until you are 25 neither one of you will be really sure what the picture for your life is.
So, enjoy the next 10 years of freedom, no responsibility, worlds of choices, and make yourself into the best person you can be. That way, you can attract the type of man you really want to be with. Think of how you want him to look and talk to you. Think of how he will treat you and hold you. Then, become the person who will attract your perfect man. Shape and mold yourself; do not get discouraged with this fellow who is just finding out that tons of girls are out there. You might end up heartbroken. Go swimming, hiking, draw, take photographs, dance (this most of all), hang out in nature - go for it, later when you have kids you will miss these things.
In other words, Love and Care for yourself first. You cannot know true love without doing this first.

Answer 2

I think you all are really good friends. If he likes you more than friends like friends it will be evident in how he treats you. If he treats you like a little sister, he's your good buddy. But if he treats you like wanting to ask your parents if he could take you out on a real date, then he's the potential boyfriend. People usually tell you the truth in my experiences. He told you he likes another girl. Just perhaps that might be the truth, and he told you because you are his friend and he can trust you with that information. Just be his friend for now and see how it goes. You both seem to have that down pretty good.

Answer 3

Oh of course he still likes you sweetheart, espeically a boy who calls everyday to hang out and remembers everything you say. He probably does like another girl, but he will always put you his number one favourite because you two are best friends. My 2 best guy friends used to have crushes on me for 9 years, and they would call me, buy me presents, take me out all the time even though I always turned them down because I loved them too much like friends than anything else. But I have a boyfriend now but I still find myself loving my best guy friends more than anything else because they will always be there for me until the day I die.

Answer 4

It really depends. If your the type of person that's more conservative and he's the outgoing, their woundt be much to say. Why? because two totally different personalitys. That is verry common to see. You will always like things about him and likewise for him. again, that is because you both have have things that each other dont have.- He might have a crush on you,but you are the one ho can actually do something about it. (positive / negative). >Key words< "LITTLE THINGS ARE THE ONES THAT MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE."

Answer 5

I think he likes u back, see that's the way me and my bestfriend are I've only known him for a year, but he can tell u more about me than my friends that i've known forever, so I think he likes u

Answer 6

i have the same problem but hes 16 and i'm 15 its hard to even think about i mean we have been thourgh alot lol 10 years is forever we never dateed but we did screw around really its hard to tell you have to ask him i know its hard but i have had this talk with my friend and i made him cry because her said he never wanted to lose me and now we don't talk at all because of his gf

Answer 7

well, i think he is being flirty, but from your story he really cares about you as a friend too, becuase of how long you've known him, so for now if i were you i'd look for another guys who would focuse on me, not some other girl :)

Answer 8

Maybe he really likes another girl but it sounds as though he's flirting.That's a deffenet sign a guy likes when he's your friend.

Answer 9

he might be hinting around trying to make you jealous but the best thing to do is be straight up with him and just ask him if he has feelings for u still. tell him you still like him also because he might think your just playin around and not b honest with you

Answer 10

IF YOU VALUE YOUR FRIENDSHIP THEN DONT GO THERE DATING SOMEONE YOU HAVE BEEN FRIENDS WITH FOR A LONG TIME CAN MESS UP THE FRIENDSHIP IF THE BOYFRIEND GIRLFRIEND THING DOESNT WORK OUT.