well, my mom trusted is to be at home alone, and it went like this, we started making out, and i took of my shirt and braw, we were 17, and me and my boyfriend both agreed that that's as far as we want to go, but my mom comes home, and walks in, and im behind something where i usually change my cloths, so she walks in the house and goes into the room, and my boyfriend starts pretending that hes playing the computer, after that, she goes behind and says, "XXX what were you doing behind here" very angry she left and i dont know what to say. help! i dont want my mom thinking I'm a slut, but the thing is shes cheating on my dad, with a black man, and im sure they've had sex.
2006-06-17 09:36:49 · 10 answers · asked by Luis G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since this happend, and you cant change that. It would be a good time to sit down with your mother and talk to her about sex. parents and children need to communicate with each other. If you are old enough to have sex and want it, she should be responsible enough to take you to get checked out and get birth control. getting upset isnt going to change the fact that you will eventually have sex. right or wrong.Be honest about what happened and let her know you are being responsible not ignorant. As far as your Mom having sex with someone else and you knowing it, she is putting you in the middle. you should tell her that she needs to tell her husband so he can be safe from diseases, and be tested. you dont need to be in the middle. Telling your dad is a tricky one. Why do you have to be the Adult and not your mother. I would tell her its not right that you know and have to keep it from him. That if she doesnt tell him he will find out someday. Maybe you could let your dad know where he can find out on his own.
2006-06-17 10:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she cant get upset cause if i left my daughter home alone and she has a bf that comes over who is around your age, i would know that you are doing something. Beside it isnt like you guys had sex. Just tell her that you were changing, and tell her that you know that she is cheating on your dad. And reassure your mother that you and your bf arent having sex.
2006-06-17 16:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1: u shouldnt have done that and...
2: u might not like this but I would tell ur dad. Even though they might(and i am saying might) get divorced u still done the right thing to tell some1... go for it right know... and if hes not home, call his work, cell phone, etcuntil u get him and tell him...
2006-06-17 16:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirl_up_990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell her that if she really knows you then she would know how you are and she would believe you when you say you didnt go far. and then if shes cheating she shouldnt get on you for takin your shirt off. shes out there with another man and shes married. you just need to sit down and talk it out with her
2006-06-17 16:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't admit to anything... if she asked you what you were doing behind there i would say "nothing" and act like it ain't a big deal like just be like nothing and totally disregard the question... cause if you act all defensive about it, she'll know you guilty.... you half to bull sh*t with her... if she asked about your shirt just be like yeah that shirt was getting on my nerves so i just changed real quick while (your boyfriends name) was busy with thee video games... and just go on from there but don't act like its a big deal what so ever and DO NOT I REPEAT DO NOT!!!! bring up anything about her cheating.... unless it's like a must and YOU think it will help cause if you bring up stuff about her then she'll think that your being defensive which you would and you'll get her fired up!!! and it will make her ever angrier, but just don't act like its a big deal and stick with your story... and if she says anything about you kiss en and doing stuff just say" mom common you know i wouldn't do that gezz common now" or something like that just don't be defensive and never admit!!! act cool and com...
2006-06-17 16:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by lemon wedgie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have a werid family I hate to say
2006-06-17 16:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her and if she tries to yell at you or get you in trouble bring up her black friend and what you think about them
2006-06-17 16:43:41 · answer #7 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i'll be darned! You got it made...you can blackmail your mom so bring your b/f over and party hardy!
2006-06-17 16:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just explain that u would not have sex yet and make it come from your heart.if she doesn't understand than that doesn't make her right, your not a slut!
2006-06-17 16:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by devotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You idiot. That's all I have to say.
2006-06-17 16:43:39 · answer #10 · answered by strawberry jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋