My mum and dad split 5 years ago and my mum ended up marrying someone else and i have a 3 year old half sister, but my dad hasn't had a girlfriend since my mum, and my mums marriage has ended in disaster! my mum still has feelings for my dad but my dad won't let on whether he still likes my mum or not. (does that make sense) I think they should get back together, they split up before because they met when they were 16 and 18 years old and they just grew up and grew apart.
My dad just hides his feelings and but I think they could work things out as they are such good friends with each other, what should i do to help them get together?
2006-06-17 09:36:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you think they have a chance then go for it. I got married at 16 aswell and split with my hubby for a while but in the end we worked it out. Try getting them to go on days out together with you and any other family. Dont tell them the other one will be there. Try sending cards and flowers to each of them from you but sign it them them, just silly little things like that. They will find out its from you in the end and just think its sweet, but most of all it will get them thinking about each other again and the good times. Keep trying but dont get to excited, it may not work, but you cant say you havent tried.
2006-06-18 00:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by bevsthe1 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
a similar project got here about in my relations. My Auntie ran off to the U.S. to be with some guy she met over the internet, leaving her little ones in the back of at the same time as they were so very youthful, and her husband wasn't a spiteful woman in any respect - she merely were given uninterested in him. the quantity of complications that talked about... in my opinion, you're mum could go away your dad complete end if she is gloomy - and he or she needs to do it at the same time as she needs to. Your dad will be diverse in the back of closed doors? Going from a wedding ceremony to a sparkling guy would no longer be the most appropriate element on your mum, because i imagine she needs some time to love herself and sense comfortable n chuffed.
2016-10-14 06:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by rybicki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and set up a dinner date. Have you dad come over, not so weird if they are still friends. Cook them dinner and then take you little sister out side or to her room to play with her. Just keep out of the way and try to keep you sister occupied so they can chat. Initiate the contact but let them take it from there.
2006-06-17 09:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by passion8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this, but things are sometimes best left as they are.
There are too many feelings that have been hurt throughout their seperation, and if your mother has married another man then basically your dad is not the right man for her.
If your dad is keeping his feelings to himself, then maybe he is still hurting after they split all them years ago. getting back with your mother will not neccesarily repair those hurt feelings.
2006-06-17 09:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be the bearer of bad news but if they grew apart the feelings wont keep them together , they are apart for a reason, they couldn't get along, even if u want them to get back together, it would make all of you miserable , best to leave things alone and let the grown ups live their lives, anyone getting in the way will make them unhappy.
2006-06-17 09:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by harmonyandericjrburns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All children of divorce fantasize about their parents getting back together. Stay out of it. This is an adult situation between them. There's nothing you can do. You'll just pour on more salt into the wound.
2006-06-17 09:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mum and dad divorced when i was 6 years old..of course i didnt know why they were fighting...about
then after in new years day when i turned 7 and a half i just heard mom just died of a car accedent
dad regret for divorceing
its not your fault for them to divorce...maybe its just a plan for a better plan..dont worry...ill pray for you
2006-06-17 09:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot do anything to get them back together as this is their decision to make (as they do not get along with each other)
However you might suggest to your dad to get him and your mom to see a couples counselor.
2006-06-17 10:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell your mom thers a guy that wants to meet you and so they go on a blind date and they realise that, thats there x,and then they just start talking and then they go on another date.
2006-06-17 09:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Emilee H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remind them of the good times! show them their mistakes. cry
2006-06-17 09:43:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋