it seems weird to me that the guy always pay 4 me
on the other hand its great i have fun without paying anything
should i feel guilty about it? should i pay?
2006-06-17 09:35:39 · 22 answers · asked by irena 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a real man pays for his woman or date or girlfriend always. sharing is ok between two girls or two guys but men should pay. I always say women should not be dependant on any man and should make sure they take money to pay their own way and I stand behind that because some men wont pay but if he doesnt then your covered but in my opinion he should pay and no you should not feel guilty or bad about it.
2006-06-17 09:44:08 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't feel guilty! I think the guy should always pay - it's part of being a guy - you pay when you take a girl out because it's a privilege and an honor that she's with you. I don't believe in any of that going dutch crap - there is no reason a girl should pay when someone asks her out. I think the only way a girl should pay is if she asks a guy out - then she should offer to pay.
2006-06-17 09:38:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It should be 50/50-ish if you are both employed. Guys have the manly thing, where they have to pay, but I feel like a user if I let them buy everything. If a guy buys dinner, I try to pay for the movie. He buys a round, I make sure to get the next one. It's only fair. We asked for equality, now it's time to prove we are. But if one or the other of you makes a HUGE amount more, then they usually wind up footing a bit more of the bill.
2006-06-17 09:40:13 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing wrong with it. Most men such as myself are happy to pay. I like to take care of the woman Im with. If she is a good woman she will do something unsefish for me down the road at some point. Theirs a difference in taking advantage and being taken care of.
2006-06-17 09:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by ironn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on a first date, I ALWAYS pay for my own meal. That takes the pressure off of the guy and me. And at least to me, it doesn't seem fair to let him pay for my food if I'm not sure yet that there will be a second date.
After the first date, sometimes I pay, sometimes he pays, and sometimes we go dutch. It just depends.
2006-06-17 09:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by writingnerd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is paying once in a while better than cooking him a home cooked meal occassionaly? I think if you care for the guy at all once in awhile you will pay. Why should the guy always pay?
2006-06-17 09:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be ABLE to pay. U shouldn't expect a guy to always pay. If he doesn't mind, then go ahead, have fun on his dime, but make sure he doesn't want something u don't want to give up later.
2006-06-17 09:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
~It's nice... but I don't think it's a set rule. Maybe the girl has more $$ to spare. I feel bad because my b/f never wants me to pitch in anything and I know he doesn't have as much $$ to spare. In this case, I think it should be ok.
On a first or 2nd date though, absolutely!!! The guy should pay.~
2006-06-17 09:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cupid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i say that guys are always like this if he is ya lover u can let him pay but dont take advantage if he is not .
2006-06-17 09:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like each other than this question doesn't matter.
But from a guy's perspective... it's nice when you're girlfriend takes you to dinner.
2006-06-17 09:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋