they abused him and his kids,he said if he could make them disapear forever he would...why does he hate tem so much....
2006-06-17 09:26:59 · 14 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has 2 ex wives and would like to take both of them out & you are going to become his third wife.wow, that's smart!
2006-06-17 09:38:50 · answer #1 · answered by lunatic_no9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he hates them because they abused himself and his kids. He holds a lot of anger inside still and should maybe seek professional help. My ex (also the father of my child) was very abusive and I used to say the same thing about making him disapear but with some councelling I have let go of the anger.
2006-06-17 16:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by miss_angel_eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can see very clearly why he hates them.How did u miss it? U just told everyone! I've been studying Forensic science/psy since 96, The perfect crime is almost impossible however keyword being almost. lol. However you just heard this from his mouth, no proof right, your going to marry him, I would start sleeping w/ one eye open once you make it official. If you separate i would leave the country! I don't even want to say ex#3.
2006-06-17 16:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
? How do you KNOW they abused them all? This man sounds like he could be dangerous.What if you become a ex. You might join them.Be careful.Did you ever think he may be seeing them behind your back and just giving you a line of bull ****. Could happen you know/ I hope not good luck
2006-06-17 16:38:48 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Jerry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardles why he hates them so much, he should forgive them and get on with his life..This emotional baggage and negative energy will trickle down to your and his relationship too. So he should move on with his life and..... P.S. you had better reevaluate his personality traits as it pertains to YOU as well..He is the common denominator in both of his failed relationships..Don't believe everything that you hear....You could be number three, sweetie.
2006-06-17 16:35:30 · answer #5 · answered by Feisty AKA Mrs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just tired of getting abused... my mother went throught the same thing and said the same thing about my biological father and my older sister's dad! It just gets old after a while!
2006-06-17 16:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone abuses your kids, what are you supposed to think!?.
by the way don't you think its a bit of a coincidence that he says BOTH of his ex wives where abusive? are you sure he's not the nutter?
2006-06-17 16:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you're engaged to this guy? What makes you think he won't feel the same way about you when you leave him because his real personality comes out and you find out that everything he told you in the past was a lie.
Just something to think about. =)
2006-06-17 16:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hates them because they obviously hurt him and made his life hell. The thing is - he hasn't forgiven them. No matter what they did to him or the kids he has to forgive them, until he does he will continue to have hatred, anger, rage, in his heart.
2006-06-17 16:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move away from that relationship, it does not sound healthy. His mentality is definitely not healthy.
2006-06-17 16:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by driver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋