I lost my virginity to this guy and I was with him for 2 yrs when this lady told me that he was the father of her 8 yr old daughter.I thought he was 19,the lil girl looks like him and the mom was suspicially very upset.I was only 16 at the time.Yet he still says she's crazy .Is he lying to me or not?Why doesn't he trust to tell me if he is?Why did he let me around them if he didn't want me to know,if it is true?so it's a lie?or did I fail him? How?the lil girl loved me?everyone (all our friends)believe he's young and have known him for years as well as I have,Does this mean he would be old?not old?Does it mean he has no interrest in his daughter?
The mom said he was much younger than her but still I'm not interrested in older guys but I lost my virginity to him,Did he just use me?He got my name tattoed and asked me to marry him but I donno him or do I?PS something very suspicious was when we got introuble for drinking he didn't?but his parents say he is only 19 but he mysterious.
2006-06-17 09:22:47 · 6 answers · asked by devotion 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes all that is a mystery to me too...
2006-06-17 09:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test...it's the only surefire way of knowing. If he's so mysterious, you shouldn't have given him your virginity to begin with, but what's done is done. Sounds to me like he's being a typical guy these days....using women and hoping they don't find out the secrets. Count your blessings that you found out now and ditch him. You deserve better than that.
2006-06-17 14:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all sounds very crazy to me. and if the relationship is going to be that weird, out of experience, you had better get out now before it all gets more messed up. I would run FAST.
2006-06-17 11:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by NS42day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see his birth certificate and you need to get a blood test to see if he's the father of this child.
2006-06-17 12:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you seen his driver's license or anything to prove his age. i don't think its possible for a guy to get a girl pregnant at 11. if you really don't trust him, have him take a paternity test.
2006-06-17 10:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by CareBear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Charge him with rape. You were underage and he was probably 24.
2006-06-17 15:54:29 · answer #6 · answered by Oriental Delight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋