Ok, I met him here awhile back and we're really good friends now. When I met him he told me how old he was and where he lived. But I saw in one of his questions he said he was a different age and lived in a different state. I don't know if asking him will ruin our friendship or anything..but what should I do?
If you're going to say meeting friends online isn't good or anyhting of that sort..please don't. =^)
Thanks!
2006-06-17 09:20:54 · 17 answers · asked by .: Brunette Beauty :. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should just ask him...be like "How old are you again" or "Where did you say you were from" something like that. People for get things and see what he says and remeber people lie sometimes online because there nervous and they want to make a good impresion on the person exspecially if they like them or something...and i have no problem with meeting people online it is a new way of making new friends....and good luck
2006-06-17 09:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by hotchick_85_18 2 · 7⤊ 3⤋
How good of a friend is he really if you are afraid to ask him a question. Is he really your friend or are you his? Either way, when a person knows the truth, the truth will make you free. If you like freedom don't allow fear to prevent you from inquiring about the truth. Perhaps there is a reason for his deception in the other question. You don't know so don't jump to conclusions. Ask! And do consider exactly how good of friends are you really? Always keep YOUR integrity and honesty. A good name is worth more than riches. The truth always comes to light. Just be his friend and let him talk. You'll hear the truth eventually.
2006-06-17 16:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by ms.sassy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ask him the questions again.. don't tell him u know he lied to u. just be like i 4got how old u and and where u live...? so when he tells u see if it's different. if it's something way off from what he said the first time and what he said in the question, later tell him u seen he had lied to u.... he is no good.... u see that he lied to u already..... people r not what they seem... just be careful..... tell him u want to be his friend but don't like to be lied to.... hope everything works out 4 u
2006-06-17 16:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mickey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one may be rotten, he is just one out of many.
I have been living with a woman I met online for almost 6 years.
We started to live together within 6 months of meeting on line.
Tell him what you think, and take it from there.
Good luck.
2006-06-17 16:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by private_footballfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If asking ruins the friendship, then you don't need him. You'll be better off. This is a case where ignorance is NOT bliss. Do you really want to be friends with a liar?
2006-06-17 16:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely ask him about the discrepancies you found out about him online.
But by you asking him about it, it'll make him realise that he's been sloppy while playing online, and he'll be more careful with his lies from then on.
He will respond to your question, but wether it'll be a truthful answer or not, will be hard to determine because he's already lied before.
Face it....it's way easy to lie online. I wouldn't trust him.
2006-06-17 16:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by Pulse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've already caught him in a lie. He's a miracle-baby with two ages and two locations. You could ask him about it, but who is going to say that his response isn't some well-crafted lie. If he's lied once, he's lied twice, and will lie a third time.
2006-06-17 16:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by writingnerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to remain friends with someone who lies to you? If so, you are too immature, irresponsible and shouldn't be having any kind of relationship with anyone. Grow up, educate yourself, learn about life and the true meaning of love and then try again.
2006-06-17 16:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you and you know it or he doesn't act mysterious, hide anything from you, by like waiting a long time to answer you than he only tells you the truth I'm sure!but if he's a creep than who knows.Ask to see a picture.
2006-06-17 16:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by devotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's already shown you he can't be trusted to give his real age and location. He lied to you or someone else, or maybe both.
If you must meet, find a safe location with other people you'd trust to protect you.
Be very careful!!!
2006-06-17 16:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by Terisu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋