ok i had sex with my sis bf what should i do
2006-06-17 08:39:51 · 17 answers · asked by gus13 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
how can i help?? be honest to your sister?
2006-06-17 08:43:34 · answer #1 · answered by matt0424 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO Nothing. now you know that this bf is not good choice for your sis as he easily slept with you. and second you aren't good sis as you slept with her bf. but if you regret it go either to church and confess so priest will give you good advice. Or tell it to your sister and bear everything what you are supposed to bear from her...
2006-06-17 08:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fess up. Your sis will still love you (it's in the contract) but she'll dislike you for a long time.
She should dump the boyfriend who would cheat on her.
Or keep it under wraps and live with the guilt.
2006-06-17 08:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself was it worth it , then if you really love your sister don't do it again, the solution sounds simple but there will be cosequences she will be angry with you probably not speak to you for awhile but when all that clears she is still your sister. remember no man is worth the love of your sister men come and go but she will always be there for you the wounds will heal in time.
2006-06-17 08:52:16 · answer #4 · answered by jose.castillojr@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you hide it, they might find out and that can cause trouble because hiding things just causes drama. well if you tell your sis and get it off your chest you might get into an argument and she might be mad at you, but then you wouldnt worry about her finding out later and causing another reason for her to be mad at you bcause you hid it. so i think you should just tell her, even if she gets mad. becuase youll know that its better for her to know now then to find out from someone else later.
and you should tell her because if her bf cheated on her with you, who knows who else hes cheating with. you may have hurt her once by sleepin with him, so do her something good and tell her now that hes cheating, so then she doesnt stay with him, while he cheats with other females.
2006-06-17 08:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok weird i thought i was the only one who ever did that but i hate the guilt its been 2 years since then and i haven't said a word i feel so discusting because it went on for 3 years and he was the one who took my virginity when i was 13 and i wish i could tell her everyday but i just can't so do the right thing and tell her please
2006-06-17 11:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by telltaleheart1843 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should apologize to your sister and family for what you have done. I live a bizarre lifestyle but I would never **** a family member. That is plain wrong.
2006-06-17 08:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by yosefvonnightmare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything which would make it seem like you did anything first of all. That happens to me alot. U have to tell your sister eventually and tell face-to-face it makes you seem like a decent human being. Apoligive and see what you can do to make it up or think what would have happened if you did tell her.
2006-06-17 10:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by morrisonfan010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use that fact to blackmail him into doing everything you dont feel like doing, then when he starts getting pissy aboput it have sex with him again to reset the blackmail thing.
2006-06-17 08:44:34 · answer #9 · answered by jwelsh1021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, tell her about it. Ime sure she would love to know what kinda guy he really is. She might get mad at first, but you cant take back what the both of you did.
2006-06-17 08:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the call---1-800-jeri-sprgr
2006-06-17 08:46:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋