There is this guy that has flirted with me and asked me out for the last year. I have been with some one until reacently. The guy is really good looking has a good job bla bla bla bla. The problem is he is not so nice to every one eles. I am the ast. mannager at a reasturant and I deal with most of our top clients, he is one of them. He is rude to the severes, leaving many of them in tears. He brings his cleints in and that is were get the balk of his business. He also brings dates there about two times a week. These girls are beautifull, and never the same. He pays very littel attention to them and they pay the bill. I really can't stand him, but I thought about going on a date just to give him a taste of his on medicine. Would that be worng??
2006-06-17 08:03:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am the one that deals with him when he comes in, no one goes to his table by there self becuse he is so mean. I even have been called on on my night off when he has came in. So if it is to mean to do that, got any ideas on how to get him out of the reasturant???
2006-06-17 08:24:35 · update #1
screw him you can do better, but giving him a taste of his own medicine sounds good
2006-06-17 08:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe in karma, or what goes around comes around? Not only would it bad for the restaurants business, but also your job could be in jeapordy for doing this. I personally think that going on a date with a guy like that just to give him a taste of his own medicine would only backfire on you. I think its a bad idea. Don't worry about it, I know what he's doing is wrong, especially how he treats people, but that's something he will have to work on himself. One day, something will happen in his life and hopefully will change his ways, but its not your job to do it. If the owner of the restaurant or your boss has a backbone, he'll have a talk with him and let him know that treating his employees with disrespect is not going to be tolerated, but I doubt this will happen because greed will keep them from doing so. Do you remember the movie "As good as it gets", well this is what should be done, but unfortunately, money has a way of making businesses tolerate this kind of stuff. If the establishment is reputable and has great food and service, not having him there as a client should not affect it. My advice, don't bring that kind of drama into your life. Remember, he's just an obnoxious player and will attempt to do the same with you. I know you feel you are a strong woman and can handle your own, but you do not know the consequences of accepting a date from him. He could be a total psycho for all you know. Do you really want to take a chance with a guy like that?
2006-06-17 15:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do give him a dose of his own medicine would make you no better than he is in addition it would still be returned to you (Karma). As for his rudeness and shamless behavior towards the employees you should speak up and let the head manager be aware of this person's sattire. He has no place coming into an establishment and wreaking havoc, he should be "barred" from returning until he can respect the atmosphere and the employees.
2006-06-17 16:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by alone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...It depends on how you go about doing it:) LOL I have felt the same way where Iw ould love to do that to somebody but in reality, ihe could be the type of person that would never understand what he's actually doing. You could try to go on a date with him and make him understand, but sometimes, people jsut dont get it :(. I think instead of going on a date and do what he does to other people, you could just talk to him and tell him that what your see=ing discomforts you a little because of his actions towards other people. Even still, he may just think he's doing absolutely nothing wrong.
I hope all goes well!!
much love
-bruce
2006-06-17 15:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by Work_It_Out 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you fooling yourself? do u really have any feelings for him? if u have the slightest feelings for him then you shouldnt do that. if u have no feelings whatsoever then yes u should teach him a lesson but think it through before u actually go do it.
2006-06-17 15:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, everyone gives out somthing, and eventually it will come back to them, and i think that you might be the one to show him what he's like, and maybe you will humble him and make him a better person. give 'em hell, girl
2006-06-17 15:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by zombie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt mix business with pleasure and why would u put your employees though the hell of having them there at all
2006-06-17 15:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by becky01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you are looking for and what you want to do. Whatever turns you on I guess.
2006-06-17 15:07:53 · answer #8 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes - My kind of girl! Give it back to him.
Joe
2006-06-17 15:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by ur_ave_joe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with it, you go girl! Show him what "you do, will come back to you".
2006-06-17 15:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋