2006-06-17 07:55:51 · 62 answers · asked by d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol no, don't worry about it!
2006-06-17 07:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I have a friend that is a virgin, and she's 23, almost 24. It's cool!
Addressed to ski faster6( above)
What in the world do you mean by " of the black race?" An issue of virginity doesn't have ANYTHING to do with the white or black race. It's about the person. I can also tell by some of your questions that you are a racist. You need to grow up, and stop acting so childish.It is NOT abnormal for black people to be virgins at the age of 20, just like its not abnormal for whites either. You need to consider what you say out of your mouth before you speak. Saying things like this just makes you looks even more ignorant and dumb than you already are!
2006-06-17 08:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♫i luv♥♫juicy fruit♥♫gum 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually now a days it IS abnormal. But that shouldn't bother you, that should make you proud. I'm proud of you. Whether you've tried to stay a virgin all these years, or it was not your choice, I'm still proud. Since you've waited all this time, keep it that way till you get married to a girl who's a virgin and the two of you will have the most special relationship, and you will be bonded together. Did you know that couples who were both virgins when they were married have the lowest divorce rate of all groups(defined by beliefs, associations, and life experiences) and the highest rate of happy marriages?
2006-06-17 08:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Rockstar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal for girls... for guys its not so normal. girls can only (technically) have sex every nine months... so they have to be more selective. guys on the other hand don't get pregnant, so they are less likely to be detoured by the biological purpose of sex. that is why guys are usually more promiscuous and women (if their brains are working correctly) are usually less. not in all cases of course..
sexual prime is from puberty to about age 26-27. after sexual prime ends most people who are able have had sex... but that doesn't mean it's a rule that you must have sex by then.
on the other hand... I'm 21 and I've never had sex. this is mainly because I'm not attracted to men and there are no other gay women around where i live. (maybe you're queer?) even before i knew i was gay though, i was never interested in getting pregnant or contracting STDs, both of which can still happen even if you used a condom or any other contraceptive method besides abstinence. of course its important to know your partner and be sure you actually want to be with that person before you commit to breeding with xer and sharing your diseases.
if you are still a virgin it probably just means you have better things to do than have sex. its possible to have sex no matter who or what you are... there is something out there for everyone. there is nothing wrong with not being promiscuous. don't try to match up to everyone's sexual expectations... just do what comes naturally to you.
meanwhile... here's a free porn site: www.89.com
have fun!
2006-06-17 09:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by stanly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not abnormal, ok alot of people have had sex before then, but not everyone. I think it is good that you have waited this long- wish I did!!! When you do lose your virginity make sure it is to someone that you really care about and dont just go and do it with anyone just to feel more 'normal'
xx
2006-06-17 07:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by kitttylisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not to be abnormal at 20 to be a virgin, i know Lady's that are virgins till they marry and prefer it.
2006-06-17 09:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by iris v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes in much of a way if you are not going through all the normal stages of comming of age and maturing you get left behind and can't relate to others your own age. Only much younger say 16 if a virgin. Only others don't understand you will simply have the same maturity as one and think like they do and feel like they do.
They'll see you as something nasty trying to currpt the young one even though she is more mature then you...
Thats what all these don't worry about it folk are like as they don't think through what it means... Then have a go when its their fault.
You need to date meate and do what all the others have suitable to you age and experience...
like those older wont want to make lobve in the back of a car hence you need to do it with those who are now while you can or make out in a cinema. Very soon those your age will only be wanting to act their age in some kind of long term relationship you wont have any idea who to handle. Or discuss how things are going wheter more long term or fk friends or whatever...
Sex is part of life and unless you do what you are supposed to at each age its very vwery hardf...
If you don't fix it you wuill end up 30 and only be able to hang out with 17 year olds as you won't understand anyone older as cannot relate.
Plus they wont want to do what you do and you will not be interested in what they want to do as not readdy.
You will be in a vicious circle. Cant form a relationship as not made love, cant make love sop no relationship... Much liek no job no expeiornce, no experience no job if not sorted already...
Anyone holding yiou back is your enemy and already stolen what should be the best years of your life... If in uni you need to catch up dfast and get help so you can do your proms, your road trip etc etc...
or all you will know if hurt and lonely ness and the closest you will have to warmth is porn or maybe prostitutes...
Females can be virgins longer... Thats what happens to guy ones... so sorry to make you feel bad... thats what you have to look forward to unless you can sort it. Hopefully in uni surrounded by those your age, many single. In work you will be the youngest with no parties, no social life ... sort it out now before too late.
2006-06-17 08:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin at any age if that is your choice. There are lots of people who wish that they could go back to being a virgin because of all of the mistakes and bad choices they have made. Don't ever let anyone make you feel that there is anything wrong with it you should do when you feel comfortable and with someone who has demonstrated that they can respect why you have chose to wait for sex and someone who cares for you.
2006-06-17 08:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by dladiesgentleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same thoughts, i'll prob die a virgin! But people look @ me & respect me, they regret loosing it @ such a young age. U need 2 wait 4 the right person coz then u'll enjoy it more, u obviously haven't found the rite person...wud u wanna sleep wiv jst any1? But hay wot wud i knw i'm still a virgin (wanna hook up some time) hahaha
PS: There's more 2 life than sex ;-)
2006-06-17 08:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal to be a virgin at 20 coz I was till got married at age of 25. Because I saved my self that special person
2006-06-17 08:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by reachkamran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity or lack of it is a very private matter. Do not be one of the sheep. If you wish to save yourself until the right person comes along WELL DONE. Age is not a consideration, just happiness. Good luck Dirky
2006-06-17 08:33:23 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋