we're both teenagers; we were bulimic for the same time, both recovered (mostly) almost a year ago and now i'm worried she's started it back up. i love her too much to see her hurt but i don't know what to do!!!
2006-06-17 07:29:42 · 2 answers · asked by alice 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
You don't mention how the recovery was achieved, but if neither of you has visited with any therapists, it may be a good idea. Bulimia a lot of times is a reaction to feeling out of control. This feeling could be triggered by an emotional issue that is un-resolved.
You say you are worried that she's starting it back up. Sit her down and tell her you feel that way and point blank ASK HER. "Are you purging?" Say, "You know it's bad for you." Ask "What are you going to do about getting help?"
Listen to her, help her as best you can, but a lot of times all you can do is be supportive and urge her to get professional help. Professionals must carry the burden if the issue is not easily resolved on her own.
Good Luck, she is lucky to have a friend that cares for her as much as you do. Be strong for her. The most help you can be is to confront her and guide her toward some help.
2006-06-24 05:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Ken C. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be their for her and encourage her to admit if shes back at it and to seek professional help. please keep in contact with me and let me know how shes doing . good luck
2006-06-17 14:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋