should i break up with him
2006-06-17 07:11:56 · 24 answers · asked by Ut Chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get rid of him. If there is trouble now, it will only get worse. I mean if you 2 have been together for a long time and you want to try to make it work then get relationship counseling.
2006-06-17 07:14:54 · answer #1 · answered by mygirl46360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know all the details of the relationship so.. I can't say for sure. If you have tried your best to work things out, then I would say, yes break up with him. I've been through the same trouble as you lately, and I've realized that I need to step down when we disagree on things and just agree to disagree. That has helped my relationship a lot. Sometimes there are things that you need to change about yourself before you can even think about being with someone else.
2006-06-17 14:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answer is in your question. You have always had problems. What is the relationship based on? Problems and attempting to solve them? You should have a real relationship with someone who you actually like enough to make good memories with. that is what a relationship is, spending time with someone and making good memories to look back on when you are old.
Why spend time where you are so troubled? Someone else can "rattle your chain" and "bang your drum" just as well, and will fit what you want emotionally and mentally.
While you are wasting time fixing something that has always been broken, trying to make him happy, someone who is already fixed is sitting around wondering when he is gonna find you so he can make you happy.
Don't be silly. Bite down, pull yourself up by your bra strap, and get back in the game of dating, find the one who is waiting on you to be done with the problem child of your current love.
Good luck and blessings.
2006-06-17 14:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are arguing all the time, then yes honey, save yourself alot of heartbreak and end it now. Maybe you can do it gently by not being available all the time, cut down on the time as well as the amount of days that you see him. Don't tell him of your plan because he may use pressure to keep you in the relationship.
2006-06-17 14:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always another around the corner. If you are not happy, and I cannot see how you can be, it is time to weigh the relationship. It seems as if he bad is the most obvious in this relationship. NO ONE deserves to spend any of their life that way. Believe me THEY NEVER CHANGE. Move on.
2006-06-17 14:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by toni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if all you're expereincing is trouble then I guess it is better to part.One thing though,try to get to the root of the trouble before making any decisions.
Good luck.
2006-06-17 14:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Eternity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO relationship is perfect...BUT, if you are having more bad times than good, you need to look at your relationship a bit closer. IS it worth working on?? If not, get out...don't waste time being unhappy. We are here on this planet to enjoy our lives. So, mo ve forward and be happy....Peace & blessings to you!!
2006-06-17 14:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by taraleighsg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, you think you have problems now......wait until you get married and have kids and bills and no time for yourself!
I'm sure someday you will se that your problems are trivial. Don't bother with dating until you know what to do on your own without asking strangers for help.
2006-06-17 14:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how serious your relationship is,Communication is always a good start.Depends on what kind of trouble??..Follow your first instinct....It's usually right
2006-06-17 14:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,because if you both are not willing to sit down and talk it out whats the point?if you love each other and want to make an effort cool but it doesnt sound like it to me!
2006-06-17 14:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by Laurie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋