I work at a salon and my co-worker who is male massage therapist.. Came to me asking when i was getting my married I am 24 by the way. I told him that i would probably get married 10 years from now since I have not accomplished my major goals in life. Anyway, he starts massaging my neck and back saying he would love to give me a free hour body massage. I was shocked! I was so glad a customer came.
2006-06-17 07:05:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would have moved away from him and asked him if he knew how long it takes to teach a pig to sing (because that's when you'll let him massage you.) Tell him you're a lesbian. Tell him you have a boyfriend. Tell him you have 6 months to live and you'd like to enjoy them without being bothered. Tell him you have a disease like herpes. Tell him he's just not your type and never will be. DON'T let anyone touch you if it makes you uncomfortable. And just say you're a private person and you'd rather not be touchy-feely with people. Tell him there's someone out there for him, but he needs to go and find her.
2006-06-17 07:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he tries again, tell him no piece of tail is worth his job, and touching you is not professional. Start gently and quietly, discreetly. Let him have his dignity unless he tosses it aside by begging, then expose the dog he is to your hearts delight. if he won't take no for an answer, his interest is not in your best interest if you know what I mean, so that makes all bets off and you can annihilate him to the most humiliating point you want, just don't start there, stay nice at first, get firm, get mean, but never get mad, never lose your professionalism. Don't be scared. You are in the right.
2006-06-17 07:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. you're acquaintances so basically save doing what you often have been doing. she will ultimately permit you comprehend in her very own way while she is waiting. then you truly could additionally make your flow. yet till then why don't you ask her if she could decide to take a walk interior the park and basically relax and take her suggestions off of issues. And flow away it like that. If she says sure basically cope along with her such as you often did. Be a chum. the main suitable relationships initiate out that way ! acquaintances first. do no longer ask very own questions. If she brings it up then basically be a sturdy listener. do no longer supply propose except she ask. sturdy success. She could be fortunate to have a guy such as you. !!!! yet she is probable having have confidence subjects good now so permit her study to have confidence you.
2016-10-31 01:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him, tell him you are not interested and to keep his hands off of you.
Co-workers who I have not liked HavE flirted with me. I just handled it by rolling my eyes, giving a disgusted look, and avoiding them.
2006-06-17 07:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by lovebird 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the free massage,if u like
2006-06-17 07:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine was easy. I reminded him several times he was married and I knew his wife! He cooled off pretty darn fast!
2006-06-17 07:07:55 · answer #6 · answered by shire_maid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had fun flirting with a coworker we had fun on the copy machine break room table atm room great
2006-06-17 07:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy U LADIES R SOMETHING.TELL THE GUY 2 BACK OFF.
2006-06-17 07:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by jsjr12469 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your that upset tell him......one chance then report him
2006-06-17 07:07:27 · answer #9 · answered by good guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋