I have a girlfriend that i want to brake up with but i cant bring myself to it. Should i get someone else to do if for me or should I?
2006-06-17 06:53:10 · 15 answers · asked by kopeck11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely not! You're never too young to start taking responsibility for your own life and choices or to start treating a girlfriend with the respect she deserves. Continuing to see her while feeling the way you do is disrespecting her. If you are afraid she will make a scene or have a violent reaction, you can send her a letter or e-mail explaining how you feel. I recommend that over a phone call because it will give you a better chance to get your ideas in order before she begins reacting and it will give her a chance to adjust to the idea before she has to see you again. Less chance of a huge, ugly reaction. Good Luck and let us know how it goes.
2006-06-17 07:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldn't have someone do it for you. Write the girl a letter and hand it to her like nothins going on. Its gonna hurt her feelings but in the note say what you like abou her like shes nice and stuff like that and tell her you wanna be her best friend instead her bf then say you just have alot going on don't date no one else till a week later. well if ya need anymore help im_plain_hard_to_get_06@yahoo.com if I don't reply with in 2 days email shanice smoke at tough_Hottie49242@yahoo.com well hope you do well with your problem.
2006-06-17 06:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by lambofgod4everz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
Be a man, and respect her enough to tell her yourself. And tell her to her face, not over the phone, over email or IM, or for god sakes in a sticky note.
It's not easy, but it's part of being mature enough to have a relationship... you have to have the nerve to start them and end them. Be a real man and at least show her this last display of respect.
2006-06-17 06:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first step in becoming an adult is to do things that are difficult. You can choose to be a child forever and ignore everything that's hard for you, or you can be a man and get it over with. You'll respect yourself more in the end.
2006-06-17 06:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by Astro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO. That is way too wrong. Do it yourself! I'm sorry, but grow some balls and just do it yourself! how would you like it if someone sent you an email or some impersonal kind of message breaking up with you? Just do it yourself, it shows you are mature.
2006-06-17 06:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by lojack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only gutless boys do that,u were man enough 2 ask her out so be man enough 2 end it.ITS HARD,BUT AT LEAST U'LL B FREE!!
2006-06-17 07:00:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to mantain a cool reputation, do it yourself. If you have a friend do it, you may come accross as a chicken
2006-06-17 06:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it means you aren't strong enough to do it yourself. And it's just mean. No one will respect you if you did that, as well it makes you look quite immature.
2006-06-17 06:57:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez....how pathetic can u get...its not like her life is gonna be over if u break up with her so just do it....
2006-06-17 06:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and do it yourself. be forward and tell the truth. tell her why if she asks. be kind don't rip her heart out.
2006-06-17 06:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by mrwonderful2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋