Should I stay with a girlfriend that has no money??

Question

It's a real problem as she never has any money to text or call me and sometimes she doesnt have enough money to travel and do things that really don't need a lot of money at all e.g going for a coffee.

Answer 1

how old are you?

Answer 2

True Story:

When I met my now husband, I was in the process of declaring bankruptcy, had lost my job, and my car was reposessed. Any guy in his right mind would have run the other way. And my husband was some one who was "ultra" responsible, steady job, college degree, investing for retirement etc. However, he must have seen that I was an otherwise good and honest person. I just didn't know how to be financially organized and responsible.

Flash forward: We have been married for 8 years. I now have impeccable credit and am conservative with my spending. I am a stay at home Mom and also going to school to earn my degree to teach High School History (GPA 3.8). After I start my career, I hope to buy my husband his long awaited Porche Boxter for his love and faith in me.

The moral of this story is: If your girlfriend is an honest person and a hard worker, maybe she just lacks direction and she is on hard times. If your are patient, inspite of her lack of cash, you may end up with someone who is priceless and one day will be worth her weight in gold.

Answer 3

That's cold of u to treat her this way, because she has money issues. I'm sure she feels worst then u( because it her who's going thought it)

If u dump her on top of her have these issues that's really gonna hurt her.

But now if she's one of those people who just refuse to work, is way she doesn't have money and she likes to mooch off people then I understand what u mean.

Have u talked with her about this matter? She may have bills and other things that causes her to be this way and she's too embarrassed

So talk with her and it's because she has bills or other things that she HAS to use the little money she has, then please try to by understanding.

But if she's just mooching( DUMP HER, MOOCHING A*S*S*)

Answer 4

Money is not what life is about. Who cares of you really like her. Things don't stay this way forever. Stick with her through the good times.

Guys should pay for those things anyways.

Answer 5

i think that money shouldn't really be that much of an issue... i mean ur relationship isn't just based on money right?? and lets put it this way... would u want ur girlfriend to break up with u because U have no money??? i hope this gives u an answer.

Answer 6

yes i mean its not her money you love its her so talk to her about some things you think would be a good way to make money so you can keep in touch and see each other

Answer 7

Money comes and goes if money rules your world get out of hers

Answer 8

The real question is whether or not you are shallow and if money is more important to you than a relationship.If you are asking the question chances are money is more important to you.

Answer 9

depends! is she hot?does she make u happy?do u enjoy her campnay? if u were crazy about her ,the lack of money wouldn't be a problem!

life is so unfair the girls who are rich usually have more fun+ they are pretty cause they afford to spend $$$ on products! just watch laguna beach.

Answer 10

"money can't buy me love"

if you actually care you would understand. if she is a total slacker and doesn't even want to try and support herself then you may have a point. but if she'd strapped due to college and rent...all that stuff then you should be more supportive. someday the shoe may be on the other foot!!!

Answer 11

You are supposed to be the bread winner anyway so the problem may be that YOU don't make enough money.