It's a real problem as he never has any money to text or call me and sometimes he doesnt have enough money to travel and do things that really don't need a lot of money at all e.g going for a coffee.
2006-06-17 06:03:40 · 35 answers · asked by themba_25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, I am nor after his money...we are both students but I have a part time job where as he has recently left his part time job. he is looking for other work but it will be a while before he gets anything.
we have only been seeing each other for a couple of months so the question of love is not really applicable.
2006-06-18 10:42:13 · update #1
Has he made any effort to get money? Why is he always skint?
If its because he hasn't got a job and doesn't want to get one or if its because he wastes his money on other things then yes get rid!
But if its because he is a student or training course etc, hang in there, he'll have money in the future.
2006-06-17 06:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Relationships are supposed to be fun - and they are a way for you to learn what is important to you in a relationship, to learn about the other person and if you are compatible.
There are some people on this planet that just don't do the money thing. I know a guy - you'd think there was a contest going on to see who could get by in life with the least amount of money. It is infuriating to me, and I can tell you I would not be able to live for long with a man like that. I work for myself and I earn money to take care of myself AND to have a good time - I would like a like minded man please.
Now if you are young, this could go 2 ways. Either you are going to learn that this is simply not an acceptable quality in a person or you will let him lead and find out what he does when he has no money. I mean, he can't just sit in his house reading, can he?
Give a try maybe. Do things his way (save some money yourself) and find out how to enjoy life that way. Either way is cool - what do you want to do? Is he fine enough to spend the time to find out? Or are you ready to move on and find out what else this wonderful world has to offer?
2006-06-17 06:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you need to answer is not "does he have enough money?" but rather "Am I getting what I need out of this relationship?" If the answer to the latter is no (and from the sounds of things, I'm guessing that will be the answer), then you have cause to sit down with him and have a long, serious discussion. Talk about your needs/expectations from your point of view and ask him if he thinks he'll ever be able to fit himself into your view of yourself/your life.
If you can do this in a more professional, less emotional way, then he will probably make your decision for you. Good Luck!
2006-06-17 06:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by kaylora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help him get a job then he has money and you have love. What about you? are you in the money (equality and all that) or looking for someone yourself to bludge off...
Or you two still in school.?
Don't go with people simply as they have money as thats being a hooker and you will be sad.
But don't get taken advantage of too.
Most jobs have how many applicant? that lmeans hundreds if not more want to work and are willing but can't get one... Great system that NOT.
Then you get idiotic scum who reject people because they have not had work for a while thinking there must be a reason...
Yes you shitty employers won't give him a job.
So help him maybe work out a way of working for himself or others.
Then you have your snuggle bunny with money
Wisdom has spoken
2006-06-17 06:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money is a material thing. If you like him then even just walking in the park should be good enough, having a picnic with peanut butter sandwhiches etc. But i mean if you suggest these things to him and he still doesnt get it then maybe hes just using it as excuse. So if he doesnt listen then move on.
2006-06-17 06:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by coco_k22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely it doesnt matter whether your BF ids rich or not and if you only like your men for money you need to open your eyes. The nicest guy you ever meet could not have much money. You need to think about weather you want a BF or money???
2006-06-17 06:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really rely on his money?? if youre his girlfriend you should love him NOT his wallet size..damn right you should stay with him.....if he's broke because he's a slacker dont stay with him...but if youre just complaining because he cant buy you your caffine need for the day then get over it--life goes on..you cant rely on your boyfriend to buy you everything can you???...its true that most girls like it when their bf buys them things...BUT theres a fine line between those two....you would have some nerv to break up with your bf for not having cash that YOU need for coffee and drinks....i mean how stupid does that sound
2006-06-17 06:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why has he no money? An excuse. Or won't he get a job/newsround/whatever. Or is he spending any money on something else?
If genuine and I have my doubts it is, money is not everything, BUT be very careful of this one I suggest.
2006-06-17 06:07:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be with him, then money shouldn't be an issue. Does he work? Do you? If you want to go have coffee with him, then why don't you pay?
2006-06-17 06:12:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money should not matter.
However if he doesn't have money because he is unproductive and lazy and doesn't want to work then there is definately a problem
2006-06-17 06:07:56 · answer #10 · answered by billm_07456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋