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I already had a girlfriend , and we had been dating for more than 2 years. But cause of education we go to different place but mantain couple. But for the past few months , i meet up with a childhood friend of mine who seems to be my classmate. We seem to have unlimited gossip and jokes to talk about everytime we meet. And soon everywhere i go she follow and everywhere she go i follow.
Cause of this i kept dreaming of her everytime I sleep.
Soon people at school thought that we are a couple. But we didnt try to reject their saying.
I knew what i did is wrong cause i already had a girlfriend.
I'm not sure if i still love my gf but i knew i wanted to
Just that i kept missing and dreaming of my classmate

What should i do ?
or
What will you do if you are in the same position as me ?

Please HELP me

2006-06-17 05:30:28 · 10 answers · asked by AdINo T 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

IF i break up with her , what if my classmate never like me and might never will

2006-06-17 05:43:58 · update #1

10 answers

Nothing happens by accident.
Drop the gf and pick up the chf=new gf.
I can see it already, you're better matched.
Of course, now you will have to explain things to the girlfriend.

2006-06-17 05:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by shehawke 5 · 0 0

well since I'm a girl I'll tell it on a girl's perspective.

It would hurt her more if you don't tell her this. What if she finds out from other people? Stop seeing your classmate for a while and if you think you are falling for her then break it up w/ your gf. It's not a crime to fall in love. You can't control your feelings and someday your gf will find someone who can return her feelings.

2006-06-17 05:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by gummystar_00 2 · 0 0

u have a gf who u knew b4 and u dream bout her follow her she follows u and wen u ppl say u 2 r a couple u dont deny so obviously yall must like it and yall tlk and joke like a real couple and ur gf is not aroun basically ur having a distant relationship where u 2 r dstant from each other i think that u mine as well brake up with her adn go out with ur classmate and i am positive she likes u

2006-06-17 05:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by platinum_rem_remi 3 · 0 0

You Should Deside Wich Girl You Like. Before Things Get To Mixed Up.

2006-06-17 05:36:19 · answer #4 · answered by mks 7-15-02 6 · 0 0

i think there was not a true love between u and ur Gf bcs if it was,u couldnt have felt in love again with other girls, and be sure that ur GF has the same feeling about u,i think u better break up with her but do not try to break her heart and try to make her undrestand that she is good and its not about her problems .u both are 2 different kinds of personalities that cannot be matched together,

2006-06-17 05:39:38 · answer #5 · answered by sara s 4 · 0 0

First be honest with yourself. Is it becoming a hassle to stay in a committed relationship? If not then have the talk with your girlfriend and let her know straight out that you are having feelings for someone else.
Put yourself into both of these womens shoes, would you want to be with someone who can not be honest with himself or them.
Are you just fantasizing to be with someone new? Are you looking forward to ruining a relationship that may be good for you? And, are you willing to ruin a good friendship?

2006-06-17 05:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sa'Sat 1 · 0 0

you will come across with many such personallity or women which you think beautiful. You are not for every one or every one is not for U. it's just an attraction.
LOVE your girl friend and be honest with her. later as u grow will feel proud being honest when it was difficult.
Don't think too much about school mate. Else you will lose both of them.

2006-06-17 05:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by chupke chupke 2 · 0 0

your classmate friend is a temptation that is calling for you attention but if you are really settled with your girlfriend then just know the boundaries are if your ready to start finding out whats out there here is your opportunity and just tell your girl friend that maybe we should take some time appart or just become friends and see whats out there......

2006-06-17 05:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

dump one of them

2006-06-17 05:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You are not married to anyone... just have fun. :P

2006-06-17 06:02:29 · answer #10 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0 0

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