My ex called me last night and he's a prestigious doc here in town. They were at a bar, he and some of the residents he teaches and he asked me to come out for a drink. The only reason I went as because there was one of the wives and I wanted to show her up. She has been such a biatch to me, gossiped about me and just plain nasty. She used to be really fat and now has lost weight & had a lot of plastic surgery. I wore my lil red dress and looked hot, even my ex said so...I walked in and all the heads turned. Was that a bad, catty thing to do? She is such a rag and deserves to be shown up, I sat next to one of the younger residents and I could tell his tail was wagging...was bad but oh so fun, what do you think?
2006-06-17 04:42:36 · 19 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOOOOOOOOOO I did not mess with my ex, trust me he wanted, but I was good and went home
2006-06-17 04:46:21 · update #1
So when is it going to end, the competition between you and the other woman? And if this is a person belonging to your ex's circle, should it matter what she has to say about you?
Would you be able to show up each and every person who showed up to you? would it be worth it? Do you think what you did is bad?what if someone did this to you in a similar situation? ask yourself? You'll have your answer.
Chill and enjoy life! It's too short!
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2006-06-17 04:52:01 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally I do think you did it for the wrong reasons. You should never worry about trying to show anyone up. You should just be yourself because life has a way of taking care of rude people. By doing what you did, you probably brought some bad karma onto yourself. My belief in life? Always wish the best for everyone, if they are doing good, be glad, if they are doing bad, wish nothing but happiness for them. It all comes around sooner or later. Besides, you teased all the guys at the bar, now was that reall nice? hehe Put yourself in their shoes, how would it make you feel if you were being teased buy guys who you were attracted to and that's all it was, a tease. You get what I'm saying? The old saying, "Do unto others as you would want done to you" hold very true and has reprocutions is swayed from. I've seen what it can do and it has turned my whole outlook on life and the people I come in contact with.
2006-06-23 23:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by jimmyweda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good self esteem you do not have a need to do such a thing. People are telling lies about one another. Leave you ex alone...Never reheat the old coffee, it is bitter.
I cannot say that you were exactly a good girl..but it was a good thing that you did not have sex with him.
I think that it would be beneficial to work on your character...because in long term relationships it is far more important how you are inside than outside.
2006-06-17 11:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by SeeTheLight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to put people in their place now and then and I'm sure your ex enjoyed the impression you made on the group. having a good relationship with your ex is a good thing. People need to move on with life and take the good stuff with them while letting the bad stuff fade in their memories.
2006-06-17 11:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was awesome! Make the doctor see what he lost, and the other wife eat her heart out. I'm proud of you! Use what you've got!! The world needs more women like you! It might have been "bad" but a little "bad", is GOOD! YOU ROCK!
2006-06-17 11:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. if you didn't say anything nasty to her and gossip at the bar behind her back and all that, if you just showed up and looked good, then i don't think you did anything wrong at all.
2006-06-17 11:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by aloha_lea413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cutie,there's nothing wrong with seeking a little harmless revenge,you wanted her to know one can be sexy without diet plan and nip/tuck stuff,what's wrong with it? Do you really think she feels any remorse about badmouthing about you? Come on! This kind of bitchy jealous gal never do.Chin up! And each time you open up your closet and see your little red dress have a BROAD smile!
2006-06-17 11:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women have to get their time on the stage sometime and you did it in a very safe and impressive (I must say) way! so good for you... turning heads.. I love it when that can happen! some guy waved at me as I was exiting the freeway the other day (he continued on the freeway, so I waved back-figured it was safe!).. felt pretty danged good!
way to go girl!
2006-06-17 11:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you are just the right girl. But don't waste time in fighting a fool war you may end up loosing your dignity.
2006-06-17 11:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good job
2006-06-17 11:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋