I've never had sex before and since there is a chance I might soon I'm getting a bit nervous. I don't know all the little things. I bought condoms but don't know if most people use lubricant with a condom. Do they? Would the girl expect that? Would it be uncomfortable without it?
2006-06-17 04:38:33 · 17 answers · asked by Ed5532 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ideally, the girl will be turned on and secrete vaginal juice to lubricate her vagina. If the vagina is dry, try kiss and doing more foreplay, especially by administering oral sex on her vagina. Once it is sufficently lubricated, you'll be ready to go. Make sure you follow the procedures recommended on the condom box.
If your girlfriend has a naturally dry vagina, you may need lubricant. I've never run into this problem though, so I can't suggest anything.
2006-06-17 04:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, don't rush into anything. You'll be having sex for the rest of your life, and the first time may set the standard for how you perform from now on. Many condoms are already lubricated and that generally is enough. The most important thing is her comfort. When most females are sexually ready, they are "self lubricating", as their genitals will moisten in preparation. Sometimes, especially the first time, it's a bit difficult for them to produce enough. The lubricant contained in a condom package is generally enough to allow you to start the act, with her personal lubrication catching up during. Most importantly, remember that it takes her a long time to warm up. It's key that you spend a lot of time in the "making out" stage, touching, kissing, fondling. Undress slowly, one article at a time. Lightly kiss her neck, shoulders, etc. Take your time. Make it a beautiful experience for both of you, and congratulations for wanting safe sex.
Good Luck
2006-06-17 04:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ice 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you bought lubricated condoms you should not have to use any lubricant. You could always ask your partner what she would lke you would be surpised to know that most women are real honest and know what they want. Good job on using your head on using a condom, you don't know what is out there these days. Good luck on that and enjoy!!!
2006-06-17 04:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by mchase_286 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lubricated condoms are a very good choice when purchasing condoms. Lubricant is helpful and can also prevent the condom from breaking during sexual intercourse.
2006-06-17 04:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
definite it quite is ideal yet frequently, counting on your age, if the chemistry is ideal, the female would make her personal lubricant. I notably recommend a product that I realized about at the same time as surfing by yahoo 360. you may purchase it at Walgreens and that's named Albolene. that's a much better appropriate lubricant because it doesnt develop into sticky or "dried out" yet dont bypass to Walgreens inquiring for a lubricant! that's offered as a makeup remover in the makeup area, yet believe me he will quite rejoice with it! i'm 40-one proper this second and that i understand!
2016-10-14 06:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by bassage 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could buy some personal lubricant just in case but probably won't need it. condoms have a little already.
2006-06-17 04:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you don't have to use lubricant, and also yes you should use a condom......expecially of all the diseases and things you can catch.
2006-06-17 04:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Larghettochick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get the ones with lube already on them. They are warm on contact they feel good.
2006-06-17 04:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope - they usually have lubricant on them!
2006-06-17 04:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by grisgris100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the lub should already be on the condom but no do not put it on urself or her.
2006-06-17 04:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by sizzilingerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋