This guy i am seeing, he told me the other day, this is his exact words "i just want to be with you and share my heart with you" what exactly would that mean. Is he starting to fall in love with me?
2006-06-17 04:30:51 · 23 answers · asked by countrylove0707 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just wants to bed you down and is saying whatever he can to achieve that. Move on!
2006-06-17 04:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by RF Ace Face 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, how long have you been seeing him? Secondly, has he been putting pressure on you to have physical intimacy? This could be one of two things. Firstly, it could be that he wants to be physical and he wants you think there is love involved so you'll be a more willing participant. If that is the case, you could probably back off for a while (a month, not a week) and see how he reacts. Secondly, if you've already been physically intimate, he may be testing to see how you'll react to the "I love you" scenario. Maybe you need to discuss your feelings. Set him down and say, "This relationship is good for me, and I want to know how you really feel". If you get the same answer, or he doesn't know for sure, then he's still testing the waters. It doesn't mean he's not in love or won't ever be in love, he's just not sure right now. Assure him that you don't want to push this farther than he wants, and you're taking your time as well.
Good Luck
2006-06-17 11:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not sure what he means than you should be asking him. Something you're going to have to learn the hard way, though, is that unless a man has a proven track record, his words mean very little. You don't know him well enough to know if he is a "man of his word". Take your time, sit back and watch his ACTIONS. His actions will tell you what you need to know. How does he treat other people? How does he conduct himself at work? At school? With his family? With his friends? With his past girlfriends?
When you're out with him stay inside of yourself (centered). Keep enough distance to be able to observe his actions in a dispassionate way. Don't be married to any particular outcome. Hold off as long as possible before becoming physical with him. For most women, all perspective is lost once they have shared their body with a man. Also, a man who is looking for a committed relationship, wants a woman who respects him and herself well enough to take the time to get to know him.
I'm sorry to have to advise such caution but there are a lot of predators out there who will say anything to get what they want with no regard to your feelings, needs, or rights. You can still have a good time within these guidelines. Good Luck and let us know how it turns out!
2006-06-17 12:07:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not think much about what he means by saying what he said. In the process you will fall into the ditch, much before him. He is trying to trap you and desert. Better be careful. A person who has fallen in love with a girl does not normally has the guts to say what he said without any overtures as a prelude to such behaviour. Do not fall into the trap, my sincere advise after having seen so many springs and suffered so many winters in life.
2006-06-17 11:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think you could be right! By the sounds of it he is wanting to get closer. I think you should talk to him about it though! Sometimes men say lots of things just to get more intimate with a girl without really meaning he wants to seriously commit to you, but then I don't know him or what he is like. Anyway, I think he sounds serious and I hope you are happy with that?
2006-06-17 11:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Modern Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think of what he said kind of answers it for you, so ya I think he's falling in love with you, some guys just have a hard time saying that.
2006-06-17 11:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Larghettochick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u afraid to fall in love ? or do u think it is Wrong to find someone who really fall in ur love?
i think those words carry only one meaning that he is falling in love with u so if he is a good person dont lose this chance and u will find ur self falling in love with him :)
2006-06-17 11:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse he luves u, and these words r quoted in a shakespeare's novel !!! so whether he is fake or real...is 4 u to decide....a boy wud hav the guts to say dat to a girl, only if he likes u that much a lot....i wud neve give up on that much a love
2006-06-17 11:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is I think he has feelings for you and feels safe to share everything with you if its to soon for you to know how fast your relationship is going just tell him that ur not ready to move to fast but you still want to be with him
2006-06-17 11:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real point is how are you feeling about him? coming to what he said only time will tell,he might have felt it was an appropriate thing to say by the time he said it,here in France we say "there's no love,only proof of it..."
2006-06-17 11:36:03 · answer #10 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋