wat shud i do wen my bro. likes the same girl as i do???

Question

i m reali confused becuz my bro likes the same girl as i do.... i noe her frm like 2 yrs and den my bro just had a fite with his girl, and now he'z behind her and she just keeps me guessing all da time, whether she likes me or not. but after all my bro. i s obsessed wit her all da time now....i study in a different skool than her and my bro studies like in the same skool as her...but then it seems like she is getting away fmr me, and den sumtimes she acts reali close, and den she is very queit all da time so..it reali hard 4 me to tlk to her tht much, the only v communicate is through chatting, and .....the point is dat she keeps me guessing..i asked her a couple of times, .she just doesn't say nuting,,,,just keeps me guessing and den she tlks to me and everyhtin and also to my bro..but after all i feel like giving up, cuz me and my bro liking the same gurl is kinda embarrasing reali! so.. wat shud i do to solve my prob..... shud i just give up , or wat else shud i do? plz help

Answer 1

Well she has the will and ability to choose. You could let her make up her own mind and be happy for whichever lucky guy it is. Or you could decide that she is playing both sides of the conflict and dump her altogether.

Answer 2

sounds like a bunch of bullshit! If she doesnt wanna start up a relationship with you, then shes obviouly not worth your time..esspecially when shes comin on to ur bro too. Tell her how you feel about the situation with your bro, and see what happens, tell her you want to be with her now or never, let her decide. She'll think ur a sweetie! And if she really likes you...then she'll be with you. :) Good luck!

Answer 3

You and your brother should have a gladiator style fight to the death for her - lol. hey, all kidding aside, I'd forget about her. If she's the type of gal that would even think about seeing both of you then she is not the type of girl to trust. Dump her and find a gal that likes you! You are worth it, don't let her bring you down man.

Answer 4

Get in her pants first? No, I'm just kidding. You need to wise up, there are a lot of females out in the sea my man. The best thing is to let you brother have her. Be the best man, and chin up.

Answer 5

One of you should pursue someone else. This can cause problems. But if one of you gets other the other might always harbor that anger over a stupid girl. You two should both let her go.

Answer 6

arise with concrete plans. next time, say some thing like, "hello i visit __insert place__ on friday, would you want to bypass?" If she nevertheless does the goofy smile component, keep staring and ask her "what's incorrect? Do you wanna bypass or no longer?". It sounds like she's only shy and doubtless necessary time to imagine. attempt this, and word if it quite works.

Answer 7

I say you and your brother run a train though that hoe( In other words so white people can understand) you and your brother have sex with her at the same time. On dick in her mouth the other in her vagina hole

Answer 8

i mean i would say you move on and let him have her, but U might really like her so ask her to decide on whom she likes best that way U and your brother won't fight over a girl. FAMILY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN O.N.E GIRL. remember that

Answer 9

you need to talk to your brother and this girl and sort this all out. sit down sometime with them and tell them its the only way or you will never know.

Answer 10

Let the girl decide.

Remember, brother is all important, no matter what.