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Question

how can i stop myself from loving someone??
i am a girl
well how can i stop myself from loving someone and a celebrity
and second question:how to stop boys from loving me and falling in love.i already tried looking nasty

Answer 1

You're making your life miserable by rejecting your true emotions.
Why not embrace all your true feelings, and experience life moment to moment?
You won't regret if you live fully and truely.

Acceptance

Answer 2

It's very difficult to break away from those feelings, especially if you've had them for a long time. You must realize that they are interfering with your normal life to want to "stop loving someone". I think you can never stop loving someone, you have to move them into the category of love but have no future with. Everytime we love someone, we create space in our hearts for that person. When they aren't there for us to love, the space feels like a hole, and that causes us pain. It hurts more when we are told we have to stop loving them. You never have to stop loving someone, it's just a matter of keeping them in their space in your heart and not obssessing in your mind. I use a key method, imagine the space in your heart where the love for them lives, put a small door on the space, and lock it with a memory key. When you want to think of them, use a good memory to unlock the space for a little while. Then if you need to cry or laugh or scream, do it. When you feel better, close the door and lock the space again. It won't be long before you'll be able to leave the space unlocked and it won't bother you as much. As far as others being attracted to you, you cannot control what other people do or feel. If they are stalking you or causing any physical discomfort, following you around, or other such nonsense, talk to someone so it's known that you're being bothered by it. (If it's any help, it's probably not love they feel as much as infatuation).

Here's a good rule of thumb...when you're in love your grades go up....when you're infatuated they go down.

Answer 3

With a handle of 'hotchick' I dont expect you're trying too hard to stop boys from liking you.
And as far as loving a celebrity, that's merely a fantasy. Come back to the real world and concentrate on real things and real people.

Answer 4

guys love bitches so not sure about that... there is a whole book out about that.. (I bought it.. lol)

If you are a particularly religious/Christian person then I would seek the passages in the 10 commandments and everywhere else in the bible that says something about "thou shall not worship other Gods".. this includes boys and celebrities..!!

If you don't believe in that then stand up and just stand up for yourself and don't let others control your mind and your romantic needs.

Answer 5

this is a part celeb love and part pride question : (1) you cant stop yourself from loving someone, its too hard to forget someone you love. (2) are you sure having guys love you is a problem? its not like theyre geeks and dorks or anything, you should be happy youre loved and thought of. cuz there are hundreds of people around us . . forgotten, unloved and alone.

~dont worry, be happy : ))

Answer 6

Try looking silly, the boys will stop wanting you. Love the celeb all you want as long as you know it won't be returned.

Answer 7

what is the meaning of boys "from loving me and falling in love"....they all not love you else only wants to use you...so!! see hard softly think....problem solve…..ok !!!

Answer 8

sorry hun you cant control somone elses emotions.. im not looking nasty fa anyone damn dat

Answer 9

I am sorry i cant help you on this but hopefully some one else can help you

Answer 10

a- involve yourself in other activities

b- act snobby & aloof