it`s so frustrating!! i liked him so much but we only went out for a day..we were friends for a long time before he asked me out. we were friends since 2 years ago, and he asked me out 2 days ago and broke up with me yesterday.. i know he is a jerk for doing this but i still like him and i don`t know why! i want to get over it..but i can`t. ever since i broke up with my first boyfriend last year (2005), ive been so lonely and when i found out that dakota (the guy that broke up with me yesterday) liked me, i was so excited... i don`t know why lack of love is getting me down.
2006-06-17 04:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by trixabelle29 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think Ur problem is that u have a problem with being alone( girlfriend wise) And I promise is I not trying to be mean.
But there are people who have a problem with being alone and feel they need to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. And when they breakup it hurts them so much they feel that can't or will never get over the person who broke up with them.
They put so much of them self into the other person,
and when they breakup it's like they lose apart of them self and they feel complete, so the become depress or scared
But the good news is you can get over it or get passed it,
and the first step to realize that it apart of life ( to break up) and that there is life without a mate and u don't need someone in ur life to feel complete.
U said u and her were friends at 1st for two yrs until u stared going out as boyfriend / girlfriend and he brokeup with u after two days.
Well, u have to move on and if it's bothering u so much u should talk with him. May be he got scared, but u should find out just why after being friends he just broke it off.
Don't allow this to be ur down fall, move on as much as u may feel u can't ( u can)
2006-06-17 04:30:26 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way you talk I assume you are around 13-15 years old...
try to patch up your friendship with Dakota..and forget about the dating thing..it evidently was a mistake...let it go...there are more fish in the sea...go fishing...your young and there will be many stepping stones in your path ahead....Dakota may want to just stay friends for now..and maybe somewhere in the future he might want a relationship with you then.....
2006-06-17 11:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by celwolf1953 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel to bad, at least you weren't married to him. Unlike myself after many years. Just take it as a growing lesson and if you're the better person, he'll see it in time. Just be yourself and keep trucking along. Cheer up, there's a world of good people..
2006-06-17 11:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kurt L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, there are to many other fish in the sea( boys out there)
dont get work up over something that was only 3 days that is a little over the edge
2006-06-17 11:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by MS.SUGA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no answer to your problem. Love, life, emotions, and such have no answers. All you can do is be yourself. If you love him, go after him. If you have realized he is a jerk, distance yourself from him. Find out what YOU want and pursue it. Best of wishes.
2006-06-17 11:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by cloveman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just think of it like this there are other fish in the sea. There IS somebody else out there thats better than him and he IS for you. all u have to do is stop beating yourself up about your ex and start looking for MR. RIGHT!!!
2006-06-17 11:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by GOD-lova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to get over any disappointment...................
You are young, therefore you will bounce back. Be strong, Be brave, and above all else, continue to be yourself.
Best wishes to you Little Princess.........Sincerely, Jerry
2006-06-17 11:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, you will get over it
2006-06-17 11:18:45 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time,find someone else.
2006-06-17 11:20:06 · answer #9 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go shopping!
2006-06-17 11:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by mommysboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋