I asked him if he watch porn in he got mad at me just cause i asked him that i want 2 know if he is cheating on me.
2006-06-17 04:05:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
smell his deck.
2006-06-17 04:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men are very visual when it comes to masturbating. They need something to look at. Watching porn is not cheating. He is only looking at something on t.v. for pleasure. Better than going to a strip club or having sex with someone else.
I used to have the same issue with porn. I hated my fiance looking at other naked women, but they're everywhere. There is a pair of boobs in almost every movie. It's just the way the world is. I've gotten over it, and now we watch porn together sometimes when we're intimate.
He's not cheating on you by watching porn. Don't get mad at him for that, or you could push him to do worse things.
2006-06-17 04:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by mommysboys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point? Your question isn't really clear, are you suspecting him of cheating you or do you worry about him watching porn?If you have any good reason to think he's fooling around , then put your cards on the table,if he yells at you that's pretty bad,anyone trustworthy should be able to answer calmly,maybe even ask you why do you feel insecure about the relationship...If it's about him watching porn and he yells at you it's a whole different story,he might see it as privacy violation that you question him about it,men got their own world of fantasy ,most of the time (and unfortunately according to me) they make a difference between their secret fantasies and their wives/girlfriends, classical conflict between the mother and the whore,I mean it's difficult for them to match the sex craving girl of their fantasy with the nice girlfriend they're dating or the mom of their kids...So if porn's the issue,speak of it frankly,being shy & prudish when it comes to sex in a relationship only leads to cheating/disaster/miserable sex life.
2006-06-17 04:23:32 · answer #3 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at him directly in the eyes (never move your eyes from his) and ask him point blank if he has been with another woman? ask as specific as possible ( a girl you are suspicious of, etc )...
1. If he moves his eyes away, he is lying in some form or fashion of the story.
2. If he raises his voice to the word NO and overemphasizes his answer, like "NO!!! I would never do anything like that!!!"
3. Also, if he uses absolute words like "always and never"...
4. Go with your gut instinct after you look at him in the eyes. I can ALWAYS tell when a man is lying when I look him directly in the eyes... (it is harder to tell over the phone)
5. Just because a man is looking at porn doesn't mean he is cheating on you! He is doing that because he is horny.
good luck!
2006-06-17 04:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by xxxcariooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl....Porn ain't nothin' but two (or more) people fukkin'....Seriously though, cheating is a horrible thing that weak people do for various reasons. If your man is cheating, his actions will speak much louder than words. The signs will be there....not returning calls as fast, hanging with the friends more, going to clubs without you. PAY ATTENTION to every small detail and the sun will shine on your doubts....
2006-06-17 04:16:14 · answer #5 · answered by troothurtz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man that doesn't watch porn or wouldn't if it were put in front of him, is the man to watch out for. If your man watches porn it is most likely just his way of exercising his fantasy sexual desires. His response to your question is not surprising.
Men and women even if the sex is satisfying, need their own outlets.
If you want to find out, you or someone follow him.
2006-06-17 04:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by cloveman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect the truth from a cheater. Find a new man and let him know how you feel about being faithfull. Perhaps you are not satisfying him. Why did you ask him to watch porn?
2006-06-17 04:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
watching porn is not considered cheating. There must be other reasons why you suspect that he might be.Most men do look at porn, its their thing to do for whatever reason. I'm not saying that I agree with it.
2006-06-17 04:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What reason did u need to ask if he's cheating?
May be the reason he got so upset is because he feels Ur accusing him of something he didn't do or even think of doing.
If he feels ur going to be insecure in your relationship then he may call it quits with u. So u should think about not being one of those people who always asking your mate 20 questions about where he or she's been, who they been with etc.
It's not healthy to be insecure & accuse in a relationship
2006-06-17 04:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How exactly do you equate watching porn with cheating?
2006-06-17 04:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't consider watching porn as cheating, its entertainment
2006-06-17 04:11:12 · answer #11 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋