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i live in england. i'm just separating from my partner. he wants the single life.

2006-06-17 03:52:41 · 20 answers · asked by b.dudley2 1 in Family & Relationships Family

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That you would have to contact a lawyer to find out. In most places parental responsibility is a really hot issue...after all, it is the partner's child too. Remember if you open this can of worms, he may isist on other rights with the child as well. Visitation comes to mind and if he doesn't care enough to have contacted you since 2003 how much does he care about the child at all?

2006-06-17 03:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by jmmevolve 6 · 0 0

Every absent father has a responsibility to their children. This doesn't mean that he can make any decisions regarding how you choose to bring up your child. If you have custody, you make the decisions. He should contribute towards the costs of raising your daughter and be given regular access. It is important that your daughter maintains a relationship with her father even if you and he don't. Irrespective of your feelings towards him, you should not be negative towards him when your daughter is around because at the end of the day he is still her dad.

I'm going through a separation too but my children are teenagers.

Good luck for your future.

2006-06-17 04:08:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i registered my daughter early July 2003, she was registered with my partners surname (we arnt arnt married) i know at that time he doent have automatic parental rights as that was the law at the time. it has since changed , fathers now have parental rights over children that have been registered with them named on the birth certificate after 2003, i am not sure if it was changed a little earlier it could even be the later end of 2003, but its highly likely that he doesnt have any legal parental rights over your child and would have to go through the courts to get it. you might want to see a solicitor just to make sure about it all tho.

2006-06-17 09:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by choccybunnie 2 · 0 0

If your partner is the biological father, then he definitely have a responsibility to pay you maintenance, and he also has a right to see the child (unless of some extreme circumstances.)

Check it out on the CSA website
http://www.csa.gov.uk/new/

However, if he is not the biological father then he could probably get out of not having any responsibility, but you could still try to appeal if he brought the child up from day 1 or something.

2006-06-17 04:00:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you need to get in touch with a solicitor. You may be eligible for legal aid. If not Citizens advice will be able to help.
There are a few factors which will depend on parental responsibility.
1) Is his name on your daughters birth certificate?
2) were you married when you daugter was born?
3) if not, your daughters birthday,

For free legal advise visit www.clsdirect.org.uk

If your daughter was born after sept 2003, and his name is on the birth certificate, he automatically gets parental resposibility.

2006-06-17 04:03:47 · answer #5 · answered by snow.-.angel 2 · 0 0

He should have! Get financial support from him at the very least!

And remember - let him have access (unless there are excellent violent/drink/drug reasons not to) to his daughter. Then at least you have a few hours (or night!) to yourself! If she is 6, you will need that space. You also need someone to bounce ideas off with bringing her up - or someone to have her when you want to strangle her!!!

Whatever happens, do not knock your ex to your daughter. Do not put problems with them seeing each other. After all, to her point of view, the only thing she really needs from him is Xmas and Birthday presents!

Just point out that he owes you nothing; he owes his daughter everything. And also point out to him that women prefer men who are responsible for their children (they can be magnets!) - especially if he does not have them full time! Perhaps using this reasoning he will want to keep his parental responsibility.

Also point out that, if anything happens to you, he may have to be a full-time father to a child he does not know!

Good luck at this very difficult time. Your daughter must remain the centre of your universe, as hard as that may be!

You must both love your daughter more than you hate your ex!

2006-06-17 04:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you should search for the counsel of an legal specialist on your region who's familiar with the guidelines on your county and state. Who did you record on the delivery certificate? the spouse? even with if the organic and organic father isn't on the delivery certificate, he can petition for a paternity try. In some states, grandparents have rights to visitation. i do no longer trust that your spouse can undertake your baby till you've been married to him for a era of one three hundred and sixty 5 days. you do not could allow visitation till there's a courtroom order to finish that in case you experience it isn't in the great activity on your baby. at the same time as they (i anticipate the grandparents) pressure the organic and organic father to get visitation from the courtroom, it truly is the time you request baby help. maximum significantly on your adoption courtroom situations is that the organic and organic father has no longer seen the baby has no longer offered monetary help for the baby yet also only as considerable he can argue that he tried to grant those issues and also you refused. I recommend once you get contact from the organic and organic father that you keep a mag of the contact (what day, what time, what replaced into suggested). maximum states received't enable a organic and organic father terminate his parental rights (adoption is the purely thanks to attempt this) by way of very truth the state can no longer take on the burden of raising the baby (paying healthcare, welfare, food stamps, etc.). sturdy success!!

2016-10-31 01:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I don't know how the Englissh laws work, but I would think that there alot like are laws here. There for if he is the father the courts will make him help with the child.

2006-06-17 04:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 0 0

wether ur child was born before or after 2003,he should take his resposibillites atall times

2006-06-22 05:01:11 · answer #9 · answered by irlamboyo45 1 · 0 0

if he is not the biological partner you will need to prove a substantial parenting and affection bond with your child.
he will argue, correctly, that three years with you does not of itself require a lifelong commitment to your child.

2006-06-17 04:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0 0

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