Just curious
2006-06-17 03:25:48 · 32 answers · asked by Airplanegirl 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
It depends on the girl. I think some women could be freaked out by it, and some would be really excited. I would try to bring the topic up subtly at first and gauge her interest. If she seems receptive, then proceed. Who knows...maybe she is feeling the same way and is waiting for you to make the first move. Good luck!
(It's me, isn't it?)
2006-06-17 09:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Miss D 7 · 10⤊ 1⤋
Actually, it would only be bad manners if you were to tell a girl that you wanted to have a heterosexual experience with her. Or if you were to tell a guy that you wanted to have a lesbian experience with him.
Of course if you really wanted to display your worst manners to this girl, there are better ways. My kids are an excellent source for these tactics.
2006-06-17 18:55:02 · answer #2 · answered by Antny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with asking the question, just be careful about your reaction to her answer. If she says no don't act like a guy and call her a b*tch because your feelings are hurt or keep harassing her because you think you can "wear her down". Hopefully, she will respect you for your honesty and I'm sure she will expect you to respect her wishes if she's not on the same page with you. That way you two can still remain friends without any awkward feelings later.
2006-06-17 03:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she a lesbian or even bi? If she is straight then YES. If she isn't then is it wrong for a guy to walk up to a girl and say I want to bang you? Seriously it is how you say it. Treat it like you would want another to make the offer to you. I don't think it is rude if she is intrested in girls.
2006-06-17 08:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, from personal experience I hate having to respond to those questions from guys. It's bad manners to suggest sexual encounters without the benefit of dating and generally making somewhat serious intentions known. It certainly makes it clear you are not interested in their minds. and that is beyond rude.
2006-06-17 04:00:56 · answer #5 · answered by SnakEve 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl and how well you know her.. If she is bi-curious... then maybe not.. I wouldn't just straight out tell her you want to experiment with her. But maybe have a discussion about the subject in general, to feel around for her feelings on the subject..
2006-06-17 03:29:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont want to phrase it in such a way that she freaks out. Just casually mention that 'If I ever had a lesbian experience, I would want it to be with someone like you'. That's non-confrontational, gets your feelings out, and makes a hint all in one. If she responds well to that you could ask her if she's ever kissed, or thought, of kissing another girl.
2006-06-17 03:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Could I be that girl?
Don't let the fact that I am a guy get in the way. I will judiciously apply some duct tape and "bobs you uncle", I'm a girl.
2006-06-17 04:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally would be flattered if a friend of mine asked me that, even though I am not a lesbian.
2006-06-17 05:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by BaBaWaWa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it would
so what you need is a spokes person
so I am volunteering to be your spokes person
I will go with you and do the talking for you, so we can get this project of yours off the ground and up and running so to speak
so just put it all in my hands and I will do it all for you
just let me know when and where you need me to help.
smile
good luck
2006-06-17 13:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋