Im kind of a hopeless romantic,
ive scored some good pickup lines and landed some GF's,
but i always end up breaking up because she wont tell me what she wants...
i cant find the answers..
im spent....
please help
2006-06-17 03:07:25 · 16 answers · asked by Confused Amnesia Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't lie,don't pretend,be yourself,if a woman doesn't like you the way you are, then,just move on.There are just as many expectations as there are fishes in the ocean,if you're genuine & honest and it eventually doesn't work,it just means you & the gal weren't meant to be together,trust me ,trying hard to please someone will just leave you frustrated. This doesn't mean that if you're a boorish,selfish guy you don't have to work out to improve your behavior,I just mean even women know "prince charming"only works in fairy tales...
2006-06-17 03:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by valerie_adele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women, generally, want someone who is a true individual. that means if you are just part of the crowd then you aren't so interesting. but if you have your own interests, that are really your own interests, you need to express that. But if your radio station is tuned to the usual one everyone listens to, and your ideas are no different from the average ideas of the average dude in your crowd, then you are not interesting. So take up Italian, learn to cook, learn the history of the Maya, study astronomy, learn something about 17th c. art....whatever....make yourself different. America is a nation of individuals. Lately we have become more of a people with a "group mentality", so break away!
2006-06-17 10:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Maldives 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women do not know what they want. They just do.
You need to take notes and try to figure it out.
She will give signs.
Care, money, protection, help, love, like, listen, give.
That is only a small part of the list
2006-06-17 10:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by javarick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone to share in the housework with them and open doors and not just in the beginning of a relationship all the time
2006-06-17 10:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by jchas64651 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who listens, someone who gives good hugs and as the person said above, ALL the time, not just at the beginning of a relationship or just in bed.
Someone who sees her as an equal and values her.
2006-06-17 10:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by alter_tygo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, the truth is.......we don't just want one thing every woman wants something different. Someone might someone smart, the other one might just want to have sex with the hottest guy she sees.So you'll just have to figure out what that something is! I wish you good luck!
2006-06-17 10:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by green.puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman is different. I like to be treated like my boyfriend's property. But I don't recommend that. Just be sweet to her.
2006-06-17 10:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by Pirate_Wench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have someone to hold them, and say I love you every things going to me ok
2006-06-17 10:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by dannym7500 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really sure, but i think they want true love, a man to be there financially ,and be there romantically.I'm sure there's more
2006-06-17 10:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"You say you're looking for someone who's never weak..but always strong
To protect you and defend you...weather you are right or wrong
Someone to open each and every door...but it ain't me babe
It ain't me your looking for"
2006-06-17 10:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Thirdman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋