I used to have a boyfriend but for his fault we broke up last week . But now i chatted with a boy , but we were friend only , but now he say he loves me ? but i can't forget my first love , its realy hard !! Should i tell him that i used to have a boyfriend ? But he realy loves me the new boy I chatted with ? What should i do plz help me !!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-17 02:53:48 · 14 answers · asked by Tithi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Confused,
First love is so powerful and it's one you will never forget, but as they say time makes the pain easier to handle. It would not be fair to the new boy if you decide to jump into a romantic relationship with him. Take it slow and just enjoy his friendship for now.
2006-06-17 03:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by I heal 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you feel about him, and yes if it comes up do tell him you used to have a boyfriend. Sometimes that helps if you let him know what your old boyfriend used to do that you dislike so that he wont fit into that category. But you have to decide if you want to waste your life waiting on someone that dumped you or if you want to take an adventure into new places
2006-06-17 02:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...no one loves you after a week. lol That's the "I wanna get in your pants." talking. He doesnt need to know you HAD a boyfriend...its already implied anyway. And if u are still thinking about your ex than you are not personally ready for another relationship. And what is this crap about you wanting to get with him even if you dont want to on the basis that "he really loves me"??? C'mon, you can only move on for YOURSELF not for him.
2006-06-17 02:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him and yourself a little more time... you've just met this guy right and he already told you that he loves you?! i mean, no offense to him but wasn't it so sudden? i think you better tell him that you used to have a boyfriend and that you'd just broke up with him.. because if you did go out with him and he'll find out about your break up, he might think that you're just using him t o fill the space of you ex.
2006-06-17 03:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think 1 week is too short a time to decide ur feelings for the guy.u need to wait.tell him abt ur ex-bf,n tht u need more time.get to know this new guy better..spend more time with him n see for urself if u feel the same way abt him.
as 4 ur ex,there is no wound tht time cant heal.
2006-06-17 03:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by pishku4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you just broke with your boyfriend you need time to get over it. Maybe in a few weekd or months.
2006-06-17 02:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you need a litlle time to get over your ex, and then you try to.if your not ready yet, just stay friends with this guy.
the big thing is to change your appearance a little, its always great to see ur ex staring at you when your much more sexier then you was with him. he will kick his own ***!!! ha ha ha
2006-06-17 02:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by Charlene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life dont need to mention past relationships makes it very hard to deal with
2006-06-17 02:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Tim H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you just broke up with your boy and you need time to heal and if he loves you he will wait
2006-06-17 03:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by trouble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him. cause if your old boyfriend wants 2 come back, he'll be angry. its really your choice. do you love your old bf or this new guy.
2006-06-17 02:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by balu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋