with him. i couldn't manage if he's gone..please help. i wanted to be with him.
2006-06-17 02:23:03 · 7 answers · asked by warrior is a child 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he got jealous when he saw me talking to guys who just wanted to talk or discuss somethings..i don't have any other intentions when i did this, i just wanted to talk to people since he's so strict and over protective, i don't get to do taht anymore..do you think that's fair?
2006-06-17 02:56:23 · update #1
I agree, the best thing is to move on. If you really feel like there are some things that need to be said before you let him go, then write him a snail-mail letter. But doublecheck it before you send it to make sure it isn't too desperate sounding, might even want to let a friend look it over.
You'll survive without him, I promise. It just takes time. Meanwhile take care of yourself first. Start or restart a hobby, read that book you've been meaning to, take lots of bubble baths... you get the idea.
Peace!
2006-06-17 02:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by hyacinth4peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is the best, healthiest thing for both of you. He is strict and overprotective -- probably because he's insecure. You're so needy you don't think you can live without him -- even though he tries to prevent you from doing normal things like talking to other people. Obviously this relationship isn't working, and being single for a while and realizing that it's not the end of the world could really be a good thing for you.
2006-06-17 10:22:33 · answer #2 · answered by anonymousyahoodude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your neediness will drive him away further. You will survive, you will just hurt for a while.
Let him go and don't be friends with him. He either has you or he doesn't. And you need not to see him so that you can get over him.
Would you really want to have a boyfriend only because you blackmailed into staying with you? That would make you cry for sure. Sorry for being so harsh, but you need to hear it. Good luck.
2006-06-17 09:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by baroness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U haven't mentioned whats the consequence and reason he's not willing to talk to you-------plz specify.
Most of the guys generally stop talking when they are cheating,planning to dump his mate,was not serious about u and many more reasons etc.As far I can sense that he has found someone to substitute and is cheating behind you which will eventually hurt you.
Would you want a cheater to hurt you and lead a depressed full life or let him go and be more merrier and find your special one who wud truely love for you.The CHOICE IS YOURS.
2006-06-17 09:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what it is like to have a boyfriend like that. It turned out that he was liking another girl so he broke up with me. Tat whole week that he diddnt pay me any attention I should have said it was over.
That is probably what you should do. There are other guys out there.
2006-06-17 09:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, what happened between you and him???
call him and ask him why he is not talking to you.in case if he is not picking up your call.mail him.for what reason he doesn't like to speak to you.ask him did you do any mistake against him.if some thing hurt him apologies to him.make him understandable you love him more.WITHOUT HIM LIFE IS SO DIFFICULT FOR YOU.tell him from your heart again.
I LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU!
all the best ! ! ! !
2006-06-17 09:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by rayer_1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ON EARTH WOULD YOU WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T WANT TO BE WITH YOU? HOW OLD ARE YOU AND HOW LONG HAVE YOU TWO BEEN TOGETHER?
2006-06-17 09:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by dnjo303 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋