Why is it that no matter what girls can't take no for an answer i mean in every relationship i've been in the girls eventually asked me for sex but i want to remain pure and i don't beleive in sex before marriage ...why is it that girls want sex but they dont want to commit? is it so hard for the girl to marry me first and then have what she wants from me? and dont get me wrong i'm 27 years old...
2006-06-17 01:49:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ur with the wrong girls. but then, i really wouldn't know if in this day and age, there still exists the virginal bride.
i'm sorry, but didn't you say you wanna stay pure? how can you be "pure" when you've had sex with married women as you mentioned in a question you posted 21 hours ago???
2006-06-17 02:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by ice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One might as well ask, Why can't guys take no for an answer?
This is not just a problem with girls or with guys. The truth is that in today's society most people of both genders are having sex long before they marry, in fact something like 40% lose their virginity by age 14! At 27 years old, girls expect that you have had experience. So when you refuse to have sex with them, when no one else ever has, they view it as you rejecting them, saying that you don't like them enough or they're not good enough for you. And if they think that, then of course they won't want to commit.
My personal opinion is, it's not always such a bad thing to have sex before you marry. At least that way you'll know what you're doing on your wedding night! But in all seriousness, don't be so hard on them. You are highly unusual for today's society, and it will take a highly unusual girl to accept this and be comfortable with it. Good luck! (You'll need it.)
2006-06-17 09:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by hyacinth4peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is a surprise. You are the first guy I ever heard of wanting to be married before sex. I totally agree with you. I would want to marry before having sex but most men dont want commit. I must say that you are one of a kind.
2006-06-17 08:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Diabla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweety, i think its the type of gurls that you have picked for yourself. But just because you have dated a few dont mean all wont take no for an answer. Always remeber that your lady will respect you for what you belive in or what u plan on, if she dont then she aint meant for you at all. When finding your own lady you have to give some time to time itself.
2006-06-17 08:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by Golden One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some viagra that'll help your dysfunction. Don't worry hiney, it will eventually get up.
2006-06-17 12:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL... wow... strong beliefs.
2006-06-17 10:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by lolitakali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stubborn
2006-06-17 08:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋