What should I do? I honestly belive that she isn't good enough for me. Not good looking enough, not ambitious enough. I do love her though,, and we are best friends. Do I ruin a great relationship? or stay and always wish for more.
2006-06-16 23:32:35 · 9 answers · asked by Yankee Trash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is more then one kind of love...Don't try to fool yourself or distroy her self a steam. If you feel she is not the one then don't waste her time by being with her until you do find "the one". Just remeber though because you think that there is better out there you may find yourself alone or alot worse off!
2006-06-17 02:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The friendship is already ruined, once you become a couple it's hard to go back to just being friends --unless you can explain to her very politely and respectfully that you prefer being "best friends" instead of bf & gf --and she accepts it.
But don't continue the relationship as it is, you'll only end up resenting her and probably treating her disrespectfully and then you'll end up hating each other and the possibity of going back to being friends will be totally irrelevant!
2006-06-16 23:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. She might get better looking as you get to know her better, but there will always be doubts in your mind. In the meantime, she might fall in love with you and you end up losing a friend and hurting someone you care about. I have made the same mistake twice, and it really sucks- for both of you. It just wastes her time as well as yours.
2006-06-16 23:40:25 · answer #3 · answered by Spillski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself why do you love her for. true love in unconditional, there must of been a reason that you feel in love with her. if you cant get past being so shallow, then you need to be honest with her and break it off then move on. its not fair on her beleiving that you love her when you really dont love her at all or you wouldnt be asking this question.
2006-06-16 23:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right...it is shallow
Just lower your standards
2006-06-16 23:39:15 · answer #5 · answered by Cosmodious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not sure what you're getting into, better stay out of it, someone will get hurt in the end, it may be you or her... or both of you
2006-06-17 00:04:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really love her, u shouldnt be thinkin of standards or anything...... just listen to your heart.
2006-06-16 23:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her....what the hell are standards anyways???
2006-06-16 23:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Dund pund se 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do her a favor... and stay away from her.
2006-06-16 23:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by gone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋