2006-06-16 23:27:15 · 13 answers · asked by marckendrick1975 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked the question yesterday what is it men want & got a huge variety of responses. We both are looking for the same thing, I think - acceptance, love, support, romance, companionship. I've been told over & over to keep looking, keep waiting, the right guy is out there & I just haven't found him yet. Well, I guess you just have to play by the same rules - the right woman for you is out there somewhere & you haven't found her or she hasn't found you. Good guys need love, too. Hang in there & keep your patience, I guess. Good luck.
2006-06-17 00:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessarily about good Vs bad guys.
Whether, good or bad I believe that women like intrigue, a bit of mystery, challenge, excitement and unpredictability, cocky-funny, intellectually stimulation, sincerity, and men with busy lives, where the woman feels like she's lucky to have a chance to spend time with the man.
And before you start beating me down girls.....this is the same for what (generally speaking) attracts men to women, men to men and women to women.
find, attract, intrigue, build mutual comfort, show physical interest, test for mutual physical interest, hold back a bit (you don't want to be too easy) then just go with your instincts.
Finally....never, ever, EVER user word "desperate" when referring to yourself looking for love.
Remember...
thoughts become words
words create actions
action become habits
habits build character....
And as you have no choice, but to have a character....do yourself a big favour and chose to have a positive one.
Good luck!
2006-06-17 00:34:29 · answer #2 · answered by Zane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desperately seeking??!!!! What is your definition of love? Maybe you need to check what that is as things have changed in the last few years in the dating game. Take your time learn who you are and what you want then go for it.
2006-06-16 23:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by reallythinking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys can win!
You have to excite someone. You could be the "goodest" guy on the planet but if you sit in front of the tv all day then where is the attraction?
Girls are not attracted to "bad" men. they are attracted to excitement. Develop it. Play on it.
Get exciting. Get fun. Get creative.
Get the girl.
Dave
2006-06-16 23:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by dave w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good guys can find love!! I used to love the bad boys, now fed up with them and their attitudes!! Dont worry there are plenty of women looking for good guys out there!!
2006-06-17 00:00:45 · answer #5 · answered by Mel.B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because your showing how desperate you are try being confident and cheer up women like laughter not someone who has a hangup .
2006-06-17 00:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by andy f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're too desperate. Desperate to the point of suffocating any relationship.
2006-06-16 23:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will find you if you just believe but something worth having is never handed to us. Otherwise review your definition of love.
2006-06-17 01:02:30 · answer #8 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love good guys!! I don't know why other girls love bad guys because they are bad.
2006-06-16 23:50:20 · answer #9 · answered by Cutey McPretty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you will eventually find some one you just have to wait a while rome wasnt built in a day
2006-06-17 00:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by misty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋