hi friends i m in love with a girl but she is in love with some one need ur advice.since i relised that she cant be mine i m just a dead body i cant see my tommorrow please help
2006-06-16 23:03:16 · 23 answers · asked by mmyy sseellff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How come you be so sure that she can never be yours ? How will you know that If you dint do anything about it. Tell her how you feel, UL never know.Even if she is in love that does not predict anything. Your chance might come.You might have something that the other guy doesnt and she might be just wishing that he should have been having your qualities. Good luck
2006-06-17 05:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by moneiqs 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your position before. The fact of the matter is, you can't make someone love you. If you -really- love her but she's happy with someone else, let her go be happy. Love is selfless. You will gain strength and courage from this and you will eventually move on. I know it's hard to think right now that there could be anyone else out there that could be just as good or better than her, but if you do the right thing for her, you will eventually find love with someone else who feels love for you in return.
Delve into taking care of yourself and thinking of your needs for a while. Focus on your career/classes/hobbies, etc. That will get you through.
2006-06-16 23:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can u decide tht u r unlucky just for a girl. Ur life is given by ur parents, how can u betray them.
Pls forget everything, start a new life....Make ur career first.
Live urself....Always remember the show must go on
All d best
2006-06-16 23:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got the same situation like me
man think once if u realy love that lady what u want for her
mostly u need her happines right
and if she is happy with some one else
so u want to make her sad by loosing that guy even if some thing happened and she comes to u will she ever forget her past
so support her
and be like forget gal make life u will definetly forget her once u r into work
and try concentrating on other gals it helps
just be sure u need her happiness
and let her be happy
2006-06-16 23:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by snake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another one that isnt in love with someone else already. There are plenty of them out there. Wasting your time on someone you cant have is pointless, especially when you could be using that time to find someone else that youre interested in and IS available. And even if you dont find anyone else that you would rather be with, by looking around you might help pass the time until shes available again.
2006-06-16 23:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by sixstring9702 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is let go of the hope. There is still dwindling hope there that you will be together one day.
Lose it.
And avoid all contact. For a long while. For as long as you feel this way, you will never ever find happiness for yourself. Time heals all wounds. Including this one. Trust me. We've all been there.
2006-06-16 23:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Bapboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do about it. Nothing any of us can do about it. We have all gone through that. It is the theory of the FORBIDDEN FRUIT IS THE BEST... However, no it isn't the best we just think it is... It is only 'forbidden' because you desire it. Once you become disinterested, it is no longer forbidden... it is no longer the best. It is all in your mind, trust me.. But it is BLOODY PAINFUL in the meantime!!! I know... the power these females have over us IS DISPROPORTIONATE !!! HERE IS AN OLD AND BORING ONE FOR YOU.... time does heal... trust me... I have been a loser with girls sometimes. I had my broken heart broken ONCE... I was 17... the only time. It was heavy !!! It lasted a short time only....
2006-06-16 23:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stress Dude, There are Billions of other women in the world and, believe it or not, there are thousands of women better than the one you love. Your new goal in life is to find them and make yourself irresistible to them.
2006-06-16 23:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Obvious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatle you can not change the way someone feels. So iff she is happy with someone else even if you did have her it would still be in a pretty mute state because she would not be happy.
2006-06-16 23:08:11 · answer #9 · answered by adyafterday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reading this i think you are still quite young no older than 21
dont worry there is someone out there for you just take your time and stop looking for that someone special.when you least expect it is when you will meet the girl for you so in the mean time dont worry and enjoy yourself
2006-06-16 23:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by jimbop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋