2006-06-16 22:47:44 · 20 answers · asked by cinders 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
Nothings wrong with it, but do coinsider if it is really the way you feel, or whether you are simply being overly emotional. If in a fit of rage i tell my mother i hate her, it doesn't mean that i really hate her, but that i am simply mad at her. So really the problem becomes knowing what it is that you mean and whether you might hurt someone else by saying it
2006-06-16 23:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by brandon p 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
The answer is tht ppl are afraid of the truth. if you speak your mind, and ppl can relate, or understand, they can sometimes feel intimidated. keep it up though, speaking your mind is an excelent way to meet men. (I'm a guy so i should know) although for some men, they dont like it. but most do
2006-06-16 22:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Dillon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have to be sensitive to other people's feelings when saying how we feel. Best to be straight to the point but also tactful and not deliberately cruel. That way staying calm , focused and emphatic ,we keep lines of communication open happily with the other person enabling them to really listen and take on board what we are saying to them . Perhaps helping them to make changes etc
2006-06-16 22:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Netty13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're a woman, the problem is that there is a very fine line between being assertive and being seen as a *****. Personally, I consider myself to be a very strong, self-confident woman, and i am never afraid to express myself and my opinions. I get mixed reactions from this. A lot of people just view me as being "the b word", but a lot more seem to respect me for it.
2006-06-16 22:52:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong , its just sometimes the other person wont like it what you tell them openly and if you dont openly speak to the other person you'll be uncomfortable and it may hurt you ,that you can't speak out what you actually mean....
so speak out what you wanna, there is no harm.
2006-06-16 22:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, but a little tact wouldn't hurt.
There are times when you're right, and when you're feeling certain things, but for the sake of everone involved, it's just sometimes best to keep your mouth shut to avoid a situation.
2006-06-16 22:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with speaking your mind and telling people what you feel. Is some sucker giving you crap because you spoke your mind. cuz if so pepperspray their @ss and tell it to them again. if that doesnt work let me know and i will send one of me angelsofdeath in training to go pick their @ss up. good luck girl
2006-06-16 22:51:35 · answer #7 · answered by deathdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It" not what you say but how you say it.
Don"t speak your mind in anger,people will take it wrong.
Address your ideas as calmly as possible or you make people go on the defensive.
2006-06-16 23:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only problem i find with that is people dont want to here the truth
2006-06-16 22:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by lost one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, itz not always a comfortable situation
think of it - if every guy comes up to u n tells u he wanna ***k
(true for all guys)
would u mind ?
2006-06-16 22:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by ankur_ak2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋